Sacred Wounding
The Family Shadow - Transgenerational Wounding & Healing
Tending Psychic Wounds; Intergenerational Therapy; Genogram;
Epigenetics; Healing the Soul Wound; Family as Initiatory Vessel;
Unhealing Wound & the Grail; Genealogy & Family Therapy
We shall make no mistake if we follow nature, and if the warning is ignored a catastrophe is sure to follow, whatever form it takes. ~Carl Jung, Modern Psychology, Vol. 2, Page 164.
Loss of a soul, which is a very common condition with primitives, is also cured by resuming connection with the unconscious, the soul must be caught again at all costs and this is
achieved by animating the psychic background. ~Carl Jung, Modern Psychology, Vol. 3, Pages 11-15.
The Family Shadow - Transgenerational Wounding & Healing
Tending Psychic Wounds; Intergenerational Therapy; Genogram;
Epigenetics; Healing the Soul Wound; Family as Initiatory Vessel;
Unhealing Wound & the Grail; Genealogy & Family Therapy
We shall make no mistake if we follow nature, and if the warning is ignored a catastrophe is sure to follow, whatever form it takes. ~Carl Jung, Modern Psychology, Vol. 2, Page 164.
Loss of a soul, which is a very common condition with primitives, is also cured by resuming connection with the unconscious, the soul must be caught again at all costs and this is
achieved by animating the psychic background. ~Carl Jung, Modern Psychology, Vol. 3, Pages 11-15.
Oleg Korolev
Peresvet, Oslyabya, Divine Gloom
Peresvet, Oslyabya, Divine Gloom
What are you preserving? What haunts you?
What family secrets have you found, kept, or shared;
which have found you?
What family secrets have you found, kept, or shared;
which have found you?
Why are we still fascinated by stories of the Holy Grail told long ago in the courts of medieval Europe? It’s my belief that the Grail myth persists throughout the centuries like a recurring dream that must be brought fully to consciousness, understood, and resolved. As mythologist Joseph Campbell said, the quest for the Grail is “the founding myth of Western civilization.”
The Grail is a sacred vessel as old as creation. A rounded container, it belongs to the family of symbols – bowl, cauldron, vat, well, cup or crucible – which are all images of the divine feminine, the Mother Goddess whose womb holds the waters of life, found as far back as the Neolithic era and in cultures from ancient India to classical Greece. In Celtic myth and legend, this hallowed icon of Western spirituality has its origins in the magical cups which have life-giving and protective properties and more often than not, these cups belong to goddesses or female spirits.
In the tales of King Arthur, the first part of his kingship deals with the triumph of the Sword as he and his knights successfully subdue the warring factions and achieve law and order throughout the realm. But when the Sword has fulfilled its function in the outer world, it must be balanced by the Grail. This sacred vessel lies hidden in a castle surrounded by a Wasteland: a barren and blighted country which can only be restored to life when a worthy knight discovers the castle of the Grail, asks a ritual question, and heals the wounded king of this land.
The Grail is a sacred vessel as old as creation. A rounded container, it belongs to the family of symbols – bowl, cauldron, vat, well, cup or crucible – which are all images of the divine feminine, the Mother Goddess whose womb holds the waters of life, found as far back as the Neolithic era and in cultures from ancient India to classical Greece. In Celtic myth and legend, this hallowed icon of Western spirituality has its origins in the magical cups which have life-giving and protective properties and more often than not, these cups belong to goddesses or female spirits.
In the tales of King Arthur, the first part of his kingship deals with the triumph of the Sword as he and his knights successfully subdue the warring factions and achieve law and order throughout the realm. But when the Sword has fulfilled its function in the outer world, it must be balanced by the Grail. This sacred vessel lies hidden in a castle surrounded by a Wasteland: a barren and blighted country which can only be restored to life when a worthy knight discovers the castle of the Grail, asks a ritual question, and heals the wounded king of this land.
TRAGEDY & TRAUMA IN YOUR TREE
Beyond Shock, Shame & Blame
There is not only the issue of the traumas in our ancestral lines, but those we are poised to pass down to our descendants. The wound may be physical or psychological, but is likely psychophysical. Wounds and scars help forge our character. Sometimes we meet through the wound; we share a common wound. If experience is not coming from the body it is not known. Where does your character and calling come from?
Only the wounded heal, but wounds don't heal the way you want them to, they heal the way they need to. What is being wounded? What is being healed? Dreams provide important clues. Consciousness is altered through the naming and healing of psychic wounds - the part of us we do not know. The multitude are images or voices of the dead, that figure as they are personified.
The multitude of voices speak. Who are the dead and what do they speak? We are cut from the dead by what we have buried. The dead are the daily encounter with what has been buried, burned, drowned, denied or forgotten on purpose that appear in hunches, omens, intuitions, cautions, warnings, etc. -- the moments of holding back, not doing -- myths and pain. Myth is the ongoing fantasy concurrent with our behaviors and gives us the immersive sense of reality.
The wound is the place where the Light enters you ~Rumi
To round itself out, life calls not for perfection but for completeness; and for this the "thorn in the flesh" is needed, the suffering of defects without which there is no progress and no ascent. ~Carl Jung, CW 12, Par 208.
The term 'soul-making', coined by John Keats is applied by James Hillman referring to a practice through which individuals: slow down and deepen their connectedness to themselves, others, and the world. It emphasizes being over doing and the present moment over future aspirations. It embraces and prioritizes woundedness, humanity, and limitations over a quest for perfection, transcendence, and transformation. Psychic numbing is denial. In other words, soul-making occurs every time we look more closely, more feelingly at the individuals and ancestors peopling our lives and the ideas, afflictions, and ever-present prospect of death which together give substance and meaning to our hours and days.
The Journey Home
Many writers and others have explored what it means to find your roots and the essence of what makes you, you. Whether it’s due to time’s mere passing or a conscious choice to leave your home behind, for many, there is a perpetual sense of being drawn simultaneously toward the past and the present. During transitions in people's lives, they often start asking themselves who they are and where they came from. Finding family origins is a start in determining your genetic base. Finding your roots also may help to find long-lost kin.
In this perpetual tug-of-war between now and then, finding the footing to develop a sense of home is difficult, if not impossible, particularly for those who may find themselves stuck between cities, states, or countries. It may take a map of family locales and migrations.
Beyond Shock, Shame & Blame
There is not only the issue of the traumas in our ancestral lines, but those we are poised to pass down to our descendants. The wound may be physical or psychological, but is likely psychophysical. Wounds and scars help forge our character. Sometimes we meet through the wound; we share a common wound. If experience is not coming from the body it is not known. Where does your character and calling come from?
Only the wounded heal, but wounds don't heal the way you want them to, they heal the way they need to. What is being wounded? What is being healed? Dreams provide important clues. Consciousness is altered through the naming and healing of psychic wounds - the part of us we do not know. The multitude are images or voices of the dead, that figure as they are personified.
The multitude of voices speak. Who are the dead and what do they speak? We are cut from the dead by what we have buried. The dead are the daily encounter with what has been buried, burned, drowned, denied or forgotten on purpose that appear in hunches, omens, intuitions, cautions, warnings, etc. -- the moments of holding back, not doing -- myths and pain. Myth is the ongoing fantasy concurrent with our behaviors and gives us the immersive sense of reality.
The wound is the place where the Light enters you ~Rumi
To round itself out, life calls not for perfection but for completeness; and for this the "thorn in the flesh" is needed, the suffering of defects without which there is no progress and no ascent. ~Carl Jung, CW 12, Par 208.
The term 'soul-making', coined by John Keats is applied by James Hillman referring to a practice through which individuals: slow down and deepen their connectedness to themselves, others, and the world. It emphasizes being over doing and the present moment over future aspirations. It embraces and prioritizes woundedness, humanity, and limitations over a quest for perfection, transcendence, and transformation. Psychic numbing is denial. In other words, soul-making occurs every time we look more closely, more feelingly at the individuals and ancestors peopling our lives and the ideas, afflictions, and ever-present prospect of death which together give substance and meaning to our hours and days.
The Journey Home
Many writers and others have explored what it means to find your roots and the essence of what makes you, you. Whether it’s due to time’s mere passing or a conscious choice to leave your home behind, for many, there is a perpetual sense of being drawn simultaneously toward the past and the present. During transitions in people's lives, they often start asking themselves who they are and where they came from. Finding family origins is a start in determining your genetic base. Finding your roots also may help to find long-lost kin.
In this perpetual tug-of-war between now and then, finding the footing to develop a sense of home is difficult, if not impossible, particularly for those who may find themselves stuck between cities, states, or countries. It may take a map of family locales and migrations.
- Where do you come from? Tell us about your hometown, your parents, your family history, or anything, without which, you wouldn’t be you.
- Finding your roots often means exploring the past. If you’re writing fiction, experiment with time travel (into the future or past).
- If you could speak with anyone from your past, who would it be and why? When were they alive and what were they like? What did your grandfathers do for a living?
- Dig a bit deeper and postulate on the idea of genealogy. At what point are we all connected? What do you think that means in our relationships with others?
When you can't sleep try looking out the window at the night sky.
Everyone is wounded, so it is useless to blame anybody. We're all wounded. Even the Earth is wounded. And it is the source of Mystery.
Everyone is wounded, so it is useless to blame anybody. We're all wounded. Even the Earth is wounded. And it is the source of Mystery.
Tending Psychic Wounds
Embracing the Family Shadow
In Re-Visioning Psychology, James Hillman describes "the archetypal figure of the Wounded Healer, another ancient and psychological way of expressing that the illness and the healer are one and the same" (76). In the essay "Puer Wounds and Ulysses' Scar" in Senex and Puer, Hillman explains that the act of healing is not "because one is whole, integrated, and all together, but from a consciousness breaking through dismemberment" (234).
Embracing the Family Shadow
In Re-Visioning Psychology, James Hillman describes "the archetypal figure of the Wounded Healer, another ancient and psychological way of expressing that the illness and the healer are one and the same" (76). In the essay "Puer Wounds and Ulysses' Scar" in Senex and Puer, Hillman explains that the act of healing is not "because one is whole, integrated, and all together, but from a consciousness breaking through dismemberment" (234).
Reconnecting
GENOGRAM & GENOMAPS
The family tree may be a trauma archive.
The word family comes from the Latin word familia which means household. This seems to be fitting since they both seem synonymous. A family is a group of individuals living under one roof and usually under one head or a group of persons of common ancestry. A household is those who dwell under the same roof and compose a family or a social unit comprised of those living together in the same dwelling. We also include the influence of extended family.
Just as we might draw a genealogy to see the effects of genetic illness, substance abuse, or mental illness in a given family, we can also use such mapping to identify emotional relationships, infidelities, relationship problems, dysfuncitonal families, certain psychosocial or epigenetic influences on our health and self-awareness of our psychophysical being. It may even include in utero wounding as well as wounded emotions or spirit.
While in the womb, unborn children may absorb a variety of wounding experiences from toxic blood chemistry to stress and shared dreams or nightmares. In their spirits they may react with defensiveness, dissociation, emotional unavailability, resentment, aggression, unprincipled behavior, self-harm, self-wounding, distrust or withdrawal and grow into adulthood expressing attitudes still lodged in their hearts. Shame is a relational wound and can only truly heal in, by, and through relationship. This may result from:
A genogram is a family tree diagram, family map or history that uses special symbols to describe relationships, major events including divorce, and the dynamics of a family over multiple generations. You can easily see where the problems are in each generation. A genogram is an elaborate family tree with psychological and medical issues worked into it.
ACCEPTING DARKNESS IN SELF & OTHERS
An in-depth genogram will show family relationship strengths and weaknesses, along with divorce, untimely death, geographical displacement, incest, gender roles, violent death, handicaps, attempted suicide, chronic illness, disease, mental illness, etc. Death cannot be tamed, so there will be painful separations and unfinished business.
A genogram diagrams and records information about a family for at least three generations. It is a snapshot in time that illuminates family patterns. Some of the problems are obvious; others, less so -- Illegitimacy. Incest. Stolen inheritances. Criminal Acts. http://www.genopro.com/genogram/emotional-relationships/
A genogram helps us change perspective on the past. A genogram is simply a psychologically informed family tree. You construct a genogram by using symbols to represent your parents, siblings, aunts and uncles, cousins, grand parents, etc. going back several generations as you have information. Each family member is represented by their own symbol (males by squares, females by circles), and lines are drawn between each family member to indicate their relationship with the other family members represented.
Lines connect spouses, and parents to children. Psychological information is appended to each symbol to indicate what is known about that family member's mental and medical history (so, for instance, if your grandmother was alcoholic, you'd write that down next to her symbol on the genogram. If your great-grandfather was known for having a quick temper and an anger problem, you'd note this next to his symbol).
Families change over time as members are married, divorced and widowed, and as they are born or die. Solid lines are used to connect currently existing marriages, while broken lines are used to connect former marriages. Ex-spouses and deceased family members are all represented, but with their symbol crossed out (to indicate their death). Dates of important events (births, marriages, divorces, deaths) are indicated, and when possible, the cause of death is recorded.
The genogram is a diagnostic tool, and as a method for helping families recognize patterns in their past and present. When properly constructed, the genogram presents your family's psychological history in a single graphic image, making it easy to visualize how your family's history (your cultural history writ small) has affected your personal history.
Our ancestry influences more than just our physical characteristics - it can also have a profound effect on who we are as people. The success of TV shows like "Who Do You Think You Are?" has prompted a massive interest in people tracing their family roots. But researching into our forebears' lives can often unearth turbulent and disturbing histories. Destructive patterns include divorce, abuse (emotional, mental, physical, spiritual); hostility; control; manipulation; domination; revenge; unforgiveness; bitterness; anger; depression; labeling family members as outcasts or failures, and family secrets.
The past 250 years has seen more change and upheaval on a global scale than at any other point in history. The legacy of the holocaust, of slavery, indentured servitude, multiple revolutions, industrialization, genocides, internment, torture, culture shock, poverty and wealth, two world wars, the current Long War of interminable global skirmishes, food degradation, and climate change has seen a massive migration of peoples across the world.
Wounds are held and passed in families as belief systems -- wounds to masculine logos and feminine eros, affect ego strength, emotional life and attachment. A family system carries the wound of its tribe. Or its father or mother. A core wound can result in pathologies, such as narcissism, psychopathy, or attachment disorder. Triggers from past wounds can be transmitted for 3 to 4 generations.
Almost all families know of one or more recent ancestors whose lives were turned upside down by these events. Discovering more about our forebears, and identifying inherited traits, can help us realize our potential and assist us in overcoming obstacles that hold us back.
If you think an ancestor may have had one of these traits but you aren't sure, add it to your diagram with a question mark. The psychological-wound traits and traumas in this checklist are organized in these groups:
Our Ancestral Continuum takes us on a journey through the labyrinth of our own ancestral legacy. As we explore our family tree, we can begin to see ourselves as just one strand in a never-ending tapestry of history and emotion, personality and achievement, birth and death, that is the eternal chain. (O' Sullivan) Ancestors live forth in the present generation.
GENOGRAM & GENOMAPS
The family tree may be a trauma archive.
The word family comes from the Latin word familia which means household. This seems to be fitting since they both seem synonymous. A family is a group of individuals living under one roof and usually under one head or a group of persons of common ancestry. A household is those who dwell under the same roof and compose a family or a social unit comprised of those living together in the same dwelling. We also include the influence of extended family.
Just as we might draw a genealogy to see the effects of genetic illness, substance abuse, or mental illness in a given family, we can also use such mapping to identify emotional relationships, infidelities, relationship problems, dysfuncitonal families, certain psychosocial or epigenetic influences on our health and self-awareness of our psychophysical being. It may even include in utero wounding as well as wounded emotions or spirit.
While in the womb, unborn children may absorb a variety of wounding experiences from toxic blood chemistry to stress and shared dreams or nightmares. In their spirits they may react with defensiveness, dissociation, emotional unavailability, resentment, aggression, unprincipled behavior, self-harm, self-wounding, distrust or withdrawal and grow into adulthood expressing attitudes still lodged in their hearts. Shame is a relational wound and can only truly heal in, by, and through relationship. This may result from:
- Conception out of wedlock, conception in anger, rape, incest or adultery, or conception in a drug-dependent relationship
- Mother had miscarriage or abortion before this conception
- Threatening illness of mother or fetus, mother anorexic or bulimic (fear of gaining weight)
- Coming at a wrong time in the parents’ lives (marital difficulties, poverty, inconvenience)
- Being the “wrong sex”
- Experiencing intense emotions from the mother (fear, anger, rejection, verbal abuse, etc.) or fighting in the home environment
- A difficult birthing experience (breech birth, cord wrapped around the neck, unusually painful delivery, caesarean birth, induced labor, baby early or late in coming, etc.)
- Being put up for adoption or parents who considered adoption
- Attempted or failed abortion of fetus
- Death of a parent or abandonment by one or both parents
A genogram is a family tree diagram, family map or history that uses special symbols to describe relationships, major events including divorce, and the dynamics of a family over multiple generations. You can easily see where the problems are in each generation. A genogram is an elaborate family tree with psychological and medical issues worked into it.
ACCEPTING DARKNESS IN SELF & OTHERS
An in-depth genogram will show family relationship strengths and weaknesses, along with divorce, untimely death, geographical displacement, incest, gender roles, violent death, handicaps, attempted suicide, chronic illness, disease, mental illness, etc. Death cannot be tamed, so there will be painful separations and unfinished business.
A genogram diagrams and records information about a family for at least three generations. It is a snapshot in time that illuminates family patterns. Some of the problems are obvious; others, less so -- Illegitimacy. Incest. Stolen inheritances. Criminal Acts. http://www.genopro.com/genogram/emotional-relationships/
A genogram helps us change perspective on the past. A genogram is simply a psychologically informed family tree. You construct a genogram by using symbols to represent your parents, siblings, aunts and uncles, cousins, grand parents, etc. going back several generations as you have information. Each family member is represented by their own symbol (males by squares, females by circles), and lines are drawn between each family member to indicate their relationship with the other family members represented.
Lines connect spouses, and parents to children. Psychological information is appended to each symbol to indicate what is known about that family member's mental and medical history (so, for instance, if your grandmother was alcoholic, you'd write that down next to her symbol on the genogram. If your great-grandfather was known for having a quick temper and an anger problem, you'd note this next to his symbol).
Families change over time as members are married, divorced and widowed, and as they are born or die. Solid lines are used to connect currently existing marriages, while broken lines are used to connect former marriages. Ex-spouses and deceased family members are all represented, but with their symbol crossed out (to indicate their death). Dates of important events (births, marriages, divorces, deaths) are indicated, and when possible, the cause of death is recorded.
The genogram is a diagnostic tool, and as a method for helping families recognize patterns in their past and present. When properly constructed, the genogram presents your family's psychological history in a single graphic image, making it easy to visualize how your family's history (your cultural history writ small) has affected your personal history.
- Patterns of illness and addiction, or particular temperaments that have been transmitted through the generations tend to leap out at you. It puts your own depression or anxiety into better context when you realize that your grand father, aunt and several cousins deal with the same problems, for instance.
- Various family traumas can cross the generations by influencing the attitudes that parents in families teach their children, and how they cope. If you're upset at your immigrant parents for not having assimilated enough to your native culture, it may help you to realize how much difficulty they went through to come to a new country. It may help you even more to realize that they may have come not simply for economic opportunity, but to escape persecution in their home lands. Some of your anger, may be related in some way to their own, for example.
Our ancestry influences more than just our physical characteristics - it can also have a profound effect on who we are as people. The success of TV shows like "Who Do You Think You Are?" has prompted a massive interest in people tracing their family roots. But researching into our forebears' lives can often unearth turbulent and disturbing histories. Destructive patterns include divorce, abuse (emotional, mental, physical, spiritual); hostility; control; manipulation; domination; revenge; unforgiveness; bitterness; anger; depression; labeling family members as outcasts or failures, and family secrets.
The past 250 years has seen more change and upheaval on a global scale than at any other point in history. The legacy of the holocaust, of slavery, indentured servitude, multiple revolutions, industrialization, genocides, internment, torture, culture shock, poverty and wealth, two world wars, the current Long War of interminable global skirmishes, food degradation, and climate change has seen a massive migration of peoples across the world.
Wounds are held and passed in families as belief systems -- wounds to masculine logos and feminine eros, affect ego strength, emotional life and attachment. A family system carries the wound of its tribe. Or its father or mother. A core wound can result in pathologies, such as narcissism, psychopathy, or attachment disorder. Triggers from past wounds can be transmitted for 3 to 4 generations.
- Some families provide higher nurturance for their members (fill more physical + psychological + spiritual needs) than others.
- Low-nurturance ("dysfunctional") families are caused by (a) adults inheriting [psychological wounds and ignorance] from their ancestors, and (b) societal ignorance and apathy about this inheritance.
- Parental wounds and ignorance promote unwise child conceptions and abandoning, neglecting, and abusing (traumatizing) young kids. This promotes psychological wounds in the kids who grow up and repeat the cycle..
- Family trees of significantly-wounded people have specific traits. Some traits are symptoms of early-childhood caregivers' wounds, and other traits are traumas that cause and/or amplify psychological wounds.
- Low-nurturance childhoods tend to reproduce and spread down the generations, until a wounded adult hits bottom and intentionally stops the inheritance cycle via personal recovery.
Almost all families know of one or more recent ancestors whose lives were turned upside down by these events. Discovering more about our forebears, and identifying inherited traits, can help us realize our potential and assist us in overcoming obstacles that hold us back.
If you think an ancestor may have had one of these traits but you aren't sure, add it to your diagram with a question mark. The psychological-wound traits and traumas in this checklist are organized in these groups:
- Child-related traumas and symptoms,
- Relationship traumas and symptoms,
- Health-related traumas and symptoms,
- Behavioral wound-symptoms,
- Social, financial, and legal trauma, and...
- Other traumas or symptoms
Our Ancestral Continuum takes us on a journey through the labyrinth of our own ancestral legacy. As we explore our family tree, we can begin to see ourselves as just one strand in a never-ending tapestry of history and emotion, personality and achievement, birth and death, that is the eternal chain. (O' Sullivan) Ancestors live forth in the present generation.
EPIGENETICS
Your life experiences and those of your parents, grandparents, and great grandparents directly affect your genes and resulting behavior. Everything we do affects our epigenetics. The food we eat, the choices we make, the environment we live in, and, basically, our entire lifestyles all contribute to our epigenetic variation and its influence on our future generations.
Epigenetics, in a general sense, is the bridge between genotypes and phenotypes—changes in gene expression without changing the genome Diet, chemicals, and various experiences including childhood maltreatment, drug abuse, and severe stress can cause methyl groups to become attached to genes.
Epigenetic mechanisms, which involve DNA and histone modifications, result in the heritable silencing of genes without a change in their coding sequence.These epigenetic changes can be passed down from parent to child and on to grand and great-grand children. Epigenetics suggests that traumatic experiences in our past and ancestry leave molecular markers on our DNA. Inattentive maternal care causes changes in DNA.
Epigenetic mechanisms, which involve DNA and histone modifications, result in the heritable silencing ofgenes without a change in their coding sequence. The study of human disease has focused on genetic mechanisms, but disruption of the balance of epigenetic networks can cause several major pathologies,including cancer, syndromes involving chromosomal instabilities, and mental retardation.
This suggests that Jews and Japanese whose great-grandparents were in concentration camps, Chinese whose grandparents lived through the ravages of the Cultural Revolution, young immigrants from Africa whose parents survived brutal civil wars and genocidal massacres, and adults who grew up with alcoholic or abusive parents, all carry with them more than just memories. Our experiences and those of our forebears are never gone, even if they have been forgotten. They become a part of us, a molecular residue on our genetic scaffolding.
The DNA remains the same, but the psychological and behavioral tendencies are inherited. You might have inherited not just your grandparent's eye color and freckles, but also their predisposition toward depression caused by the neglect they suffered as infants and young children. On the other hand, if your parent or grandparent, who was born to a maltreating family, was adopted at an early age by a nurturing, supportive, and loving family, then they and you will be privy to an epigenetic boost; strengths and resiliencies are also passed on.
Harsh parenting methods, methods grounded in power and control, methods that are shaming, blaming, and critical only serve to reinforce negative expectations and the unresponsive stress-response system's reset mechanism. Parenting methods grounded in a focus on relationship and connections of an emotionally meaningful and joyful nature may reset the stress response system by its epigenetic effects. http://www.center4familydevelop.com/Epigenetics.pdf.
Your life experiences and those of your parents, grandparents, and great grandparents directly affect your genes and resulting behavior. Everything we do affects our epigenetics. The food we eat, the choices we make, the environment we live in, and, basically, our entire lifestyles all contribute to our epigenetic variation and its influence on our future generations.
Epigenetics, in a general sense, is the bridge between genotypes and phenotypes—changes in gene expression without changing the genome Diet, chemicals, and various experiences including childhood maltreatment, drug abuse, and severe stress can cause methyl groups to become attached to genes.
Epigenetic mechanisms, which involve DNA and histone modifications, result in the heritable silencing of genes without a change in their coding sequence.These epigenetic changes can be passed down from parent to child and on to grand and great-grand children. Epigenetics suggests that traumatic experiences in our past and ancestry leave molecular markers on our DNA. Inattentive maternal care causes changes in DNA.
Epigenetic mechanisms, which involve DNA and histone modifications, result in the heritable silencing ofgenes without a change in their coding sequence. The study of human disease has focused on genetic mechanisms, but disruption of the balance of epigenetic networks can cause several major pathologies,including cancer, syndromes involving chromosomal instabilities, and mental retardation.
This suggests that Jews and Japanese whose great-grandparents were in concentration camps, Chinese whose grandparents lived through the ravages of the Cultural Revolution, young immigrants from Africa whose parents survived brutal civil wars and genocidal massacres, and adults who grew up with alcoholic or abusive parents, all carry with them more than just memories. Our experiences and those of our forebears are never gone, even if they have been forgotten. They become a part of us, a molecular residue on our genetic scaffolding.
The DNA remains the same, but the psychological and behavioral tendencies are inherited. You might have inherited not just your grandparent's eye color and freckles, but also their predisposition toward depression caused by the neglect they suffered as infants and young children. On the other hand, if your parent or grandparent, who was born to a maltreating family, was adopted at an early age by a nurturing, supportive, and loving family, then they and you will be privy to an epigenetic boost; strengths and resiliencies are also passed on.
Harsh parenting methods, methods grounded in power and control, methods that are shaming, blaming, and critical only serve to reinforce negative expectations and the unresponsive stress-response system's reset mechanism. Parenting methods grounded in a focus on relationship and connections of an emotionally meaningful and joyful nature may reset the stress response system by its epigenetic effects. http://www.center4familydevelop.com/Epigenetics.pdf.
Frank Cadogan Cowper (1877–1958), Our Lady of the Fruits of the Earth
ROOTS OF BEING
Healing the Soul Wound
This last unity has to be found, and this will happen only if the person is wounded in his innermost being, most often by someone chosen by fate to be the hammer, because as a rule he can’t do it on his own. ~Carl Jung, Children’s Dream Seminar, Pages 276-279.
"How many thousand of my poorest subjects / Are at this hour asleep!
O sleep, O gentle sleep, . . ." "Uneasy lies the head that wears a crown." --
Shakespeare's Henry IV, Part 2, Act 3, Scene 1, soliloquyShakespeare's Henry IV, Part 2, Act 3, Scene 1, soliloquy
Shakespeare's Henry IV, Part 2, Act 3, Scene 1, soliloquy
In Shakespeare, the entire kingdom sleeps yet Henry has insomnia, deprived by the god of sleep. Henry concludes that kings are restless because they're burdened with weighty matters. The "crown" weighs heavy on those with active heritage in their psychophysical being.
The biological family, the physical manifestations of family, the family of sweat and egg and sperm and tears, is fading from our tradition. Many people have violent or traumatic ancestry. Witchburnings, catastrophes, atrocities, accidents, illness, deprivation, war horrors, physical and sexual abuse, plague, famine, massacres, murders, infidelity, incest, criminality, mental illness, substance abuse, and potential skeletons lurk in our ancestral unconscious.
We even embody the imaginations of our ancestors in ways that frequently diverge sharply from the habitual understandings we have unconsciously absorbed from the cultures in which we were raised. New awareness can engender unexpected new vitality and wonder or abject terror. But one thing has changed: you have many more alternatives than your ancestors.
Being overwhelmed by the burden of a hyperactivated unconscious can feel like being crushed, torn apart, or drowned. Even the transformative power of the psyche appears first as a monstrous or numinous threat as it targets the old ego which must dissolve or "die" for the new personality to arise. Dreams may reveal we are threatened by archetypal powers that bring disintegration, pain and fear to the ego.
We may not recognize the source of our pain and dysfunction. But we can feel threatened with dissolution or tendencies to split by the past as well as the future. The conscious and unconscious tend to attract one another, as dreams of threatening snakes may show. The danger may manifest as being swallowed by the monsters of the unconscious. Myths express the sucking and suffocating aspect of water by populating it with monsters, dragons, or other water creatures.
Character archetypes may battle with one another as subpersonalities beyond conscious will, with both functional and negative sides. Like instincts, they are not going to go away, but forcibly insist on their value and importance. They may create blunders, guilt, revenge, imbalance, fixations, inflations, rage, avarice, envy, strange abilities, self-delusion, and obsessions in the personality and power centers in the psyche.
Tragic Divisions
There are huge numbers of direct descendants from Norman, Plantagenet, Angevin and other noble lines, leading back into the mists of prehistory. Royal lines, in particular, are full of clandestine plots, temptations, manipulations, wrath, vengeance, rebellion, murder, betrayal, double-binds, infidelities, rape, incest, psychopathy, madness, and split loyalties. Count the ways: torture, hurling from heights, dismemberment, beheading, suffocation, strangulation, poison, hanging, flaying, burning, etc. Bloody dynasties have fought throughout history to maintain their ascendancy. Historically, we have often been threatened by the domineering power of others.
The ancestors had a terrible love of war. Often we have kin on both sides of warring factions or nations. They inflict nefarious acts upon one another, from suppression to extinction of lines. Some things we learn in genealogy may be hard to accept, feeling more of a burden than a blessing. Sometimes we already had glimpses of such ancestral traumas in our dreams. Any symptoms or "ghosts" of the past can be transformed into "ancestors" who positively impact thinking.
PSYCHIC NUMBING IS DENIAL
A wound that happens to an ancestor imprints our DNA and wounds the family soul. Unresolved trauma imprints onto others in the family. Often the most sensitive person in the family will carry the feelings of the troubled ancestor.
Roger Woolger claims, "our culture has few such practices for releasing the dead, with the result that many of our energy problems, obsessive issues and persistent complexes often turn out to be old or ancestral spirits energies trying in vain to speak or act through us to resolve unfinished issues not of our, but their making."
If the "Grail" serves anyone, it serves this psychically autonomous "First Family." This field of potential plays out unconsciously through our psyches and corporeality. It is a quest for our essential nature. The Grail serves the Grail family as an composite transgenerational hereditary entity. That said, most also carry quite ordinary lines of descent which outnumber hereditary royal lines for most.
Remediation
Why don't we recognize and reflect on our family in our inner work and spiritual life? Why do we lack of family involvement and resource? The psyche is inherently tribal. The vast body of cross-cultural investigations such as, Campbell (1988) or Eliade (1978) makes this clear. The family first receives the archetypal projections of the emergent Self. The family is the necessary catalyst for the developmental appearance, sequencing, and empowering of these archetypal media both biologically and psychospiritually.
Of course, the family presence is pervasive in the healing process. We often dream of family and ancestral interactions, reactions, and abreactions; these dreams often relate to our inner process. The family -- the whole family, including all of the ancestors -- is always within us. We cannot escape family and its influence. Family broods over us from conception to death; family midwives the soul; family makes or breaks our quest for meaning.
Restoration
We have no choice in involving or excluding the family in our self-exploration. Working on three or four generations sends us back to the unconscious. Epigenetics has revealed the intergenerational effects of trauma. We can go beyond what is transmitted consciously from generation to generation, bringing to light what is transmitted intergenerationally. Because it is never verbalized, it remains hidden and unassimilated, including family secrets. It can manifest in the form of pain, illness, silence, body language, failures, slips, bad fortune, and other existential difficulties. But the "knowing self" carries that truth."
Ref. https://ofj.org/story/october-1999-newsletter-archive
Healing the Soul Wound
This last unity has to be found, and this will happen only if the person is wounded in his innermost being, most often by someone chosen by fate to be the hammer, because as a rule he can’t do it on his own. ~Carl Jung, Children’s Dream Seminar, Pages 276-279.
"How many thousand of my poorest subjects / Are at this hour asleep!
O sleep, O gentle sleep, . . ." "Uneasy lies the head that wears a crown." --
Shakespeare's Henry IV, Part 2, Act 3, Scene 1, soliloquyShakespeare's Henry IV, Part 2, Act 3, Scene 1, soliloquy
Shakespeare's Henry IV, Part 2, Act 3, Scene 1, soliloquy
In Shakespeare, the entire kingdom sleeps yet Henry has insomnia, deprived by the god of sleep. Henry concludes that kings are restless because they're burdened with weighty matters. The "crown" weighs heavy on those with active heritage in their psychophysical being.
The biological family, the physical manifestations of family, the family of sweat and egg and sperm and tears, is fading from our tradition. Many people have violent or traumatic ancestry. Witchburnings, catastrophes, atrocities, accidents, illness, deprivation, war horrors, physical and sexual abuse, plague, famine, massacres, murders, infidelity, incest, criminality, mental illness, substance abuse, and potential skeletons lurk in our ancestral unconscious.
We even embody the imaginations of our ancestors in ways that frequently diverge sharply from the habitual understandings we have unconsciously absorbed from the cultures in which we were raised. New awareness can engender unexpected new vitality and wonder or abject terror. But one thing has changed: you have many more alternatives than your ancestors.
Being overwhelmed by the burden of a hyperactivated unconscious can feel like being crushed, torn apart, or drowned. Even the transformative power of the psyche appears first as a monstrous or numinous threat as it targets the old ego which must dissolve or "die" for the new personality to arise. Dreams may reveal we are threatened by archetypal powers that bring disintegration, pain and fear to the ego.
We may not recognize the source of our pain and dysfunction. But we can feel threatened with dissolution or tendencies to split by the past as well as the future. The conscious and unconscious tend to attract one another, as dreams of threatening snakes may show. The danger may manifest as being swallowed by the monsters of the unconscious. Myths express the sucking and suffocating aspect of water by populating it with monsters, dragons, or other water creatures.
Character archetypes may battle with one another as subpersonalities beyond conscious will, with both functional and negative sides. Like instincts, they are not going to go away, but forcibly insist on their value and importance. They may create blunders, guilt, revenge, imbalance, fixations, inflations, rage, avarice, envy, strange abilities, self-delusion, and obsessions in the personality and power centers in the psyche.
Tragic Divisions
There are huge numbers of direct descendants from Norman, Plantagenet, Angevin and other noble lines, leading back into the mists of prehistory. Royal lines, in particular, are full of clandestine plots, temptations, manipulations, wrath, vengeance, rebellion, murder, betrayal, double-binds, infidelities, rape, incest, psychopathy, madness, and split loyalties. Count the ways: torture, hurling from heights, dismemberment, beheading, suffocation, strangulation, poison, hanging, flaying, burning, etc. Bloody dynasties have fought throughout history to maintain their ascendancy. Historically, we have often been threatened by the domineering power of others.
The ancestors had a terrible love of war. Often we have kin on both sides of warring factions or nations. They inflict nefarious acts upon one another, from suppression to extinction of lines. Some things we learn in genealogy may be hard to accept, feeling more of a burden than a blessing. Sometimes we already had glimpses of such ancestral traumas in our dreams. Any symptoms or "ghosts" of the past can be transformed into "ancestors" who positively impact thinking.
PSYCHIC NUMBING IS DENIAL
A wound that happens to an ancestor imprints our DNA and wounds the family soul. Unresolved trauma imprints onto others in the family. Often the most sensitive person in the family will carry the feelings of the troubled ancestor.
Roger Woolger claims, "our culture has few such practices for releasing the dead, with the result that many of our energy problems, obsessive issues and persistent complexes often turn out to be old or ancestral spirits energies trying in vain to speak or act through us to resolve unfinished issues not of our, but their making."
If the "Grail" serves anyone, it serves this psychically autonomous "First Family." This field of potential plays out unconsciously through our psyches and corporeality. It is a quest for our essential nature. The Grail serves the Grail family as an composite transgenerational hereditary entity. That said, most also carry quite ordinary lines of descent which outnumber hereditary royal lines for most.
Remediation
Why don't we recognize and reflect on our family in our inner work and spiritual life? Why do we lack of family involvement and resource? The psyche is inherently tribal. The vast body of cross-cultural investigations such as, Campbell (1988) or Eliade (1978) makes this clear. The family first receives the archetypal projections of the emergent Self. The family is the necessary catalyst for the developmental appearance, sequencing, and empowering of these archetypal media both biologically and psychospiritually.
Of course, the family presence is pervasive in the healing process. We often dream of family and ancestral interactions, reactions, and abreactions; these dreams often relate to our inner process. The family -- the whole family, including all of the ancestors -- is always within us. We cannot escape family and its influence. Family broods over us from conception to death; family midwives the soul; family makes or breaks our quest for meaning.
Restoration
We have no choice in involving or excluding the family in our self-exploration. Working on three or four generations sends us back to the unconscious. Epigenetics has revealed the intergenerational effects of trauma. We can go beyond what is transmitted consciously from generation to generation, bringing to light what is transmitted intergenerationally. Because it is never verbalized, it remains hidden and unassimilated, including family secrets. It can manifest in the form of pain, illness, silence, body language, failures, slips, bad fortune, and other existential difficulties. But the "knowing self" carries that truth."
Ref. https://ofj.org/story/october-1999-newsletter-archive
The Ancestor Syndrome: Transgenerational Psychotherapy and the Hidden Links ... By Anne Ancelin Schützenberger
"Double-Bind"
Holbein ‘Sir Henry Guildford’ Detail of Order of Garter showing Lancastrian Roses
SACRED HERITAGE, SACRED WOUNDING
The Family Is the Essential Psychospiritual Initiatory Vessel
When we tell stories about the family without judgment and without instant analysis. . . family history is transformed into myth. Whether we know it or not, our ideas about the family are rooted in the ways we imagine the family. That personal family, which seems so concrete, is always an imaginal entity. Part of our alchemical work with soul is to extract myth from the hard details of family history and memory on the principle that increase of imagination is always increase in soul. --Moore 1992, 32
The family is where the imagination seeds. The term "Family Constellations" was first used by Alfred Adler in a somewhat different context to refer to the phenomenon that each individual belongs to and is bonded in relationship to other members of his or her family system.
It is the environmental release mechanism for the activation and unfolding of the imaginal soul within us at birth. The hovering, brooding, incessant nurturing of the bio-archetypal Mother and Father validates not only the body and its awakening sensorium but also, much more profoundly, the psyche and its awakening spirit-eros. The mediation of the family helps us see not just the phenomenal outer world, but the noumenal inner world as well.
The family is the purest vessel of our destiny. More than the temenos of analysis, the sacraments of religion, the most transcendent of experiences, it is family that births us, develops us, procreates us, and buries us. We can never be more or less to life than what has been bequeathed to us by our ancestors. Regardless of the pain and travail it may create for us, family is the grail within which the sacred nectar of our physical and psychic DNA is carried from one generation to the next.
We can deepen our exploration of the ancient ancestors as a moving force of experience at work in our contemporary psyches. The ancestral field appears to function non-locally in that their influence is not space-time dependent, nor from what we can tell, are they subject to any causal limitations in the outer, natural world. Each manifestation of form appears in the world through a consolidation of the informational content of a DNA or archetypal blueprint, then congeals into a recognizable pattern.
We learn about the various archetypal configurations through these patterns. Our lines are incredibly rich in information. The pattern, which can change, is a manifestation of the information contained within a field and is not in and of itself autonomous. The understanding of field phenomena, including resonant patterns, depth, numinosity, coherence, and synchronicities, may help us to translate and convert unconscious behaviors into opportunities for greater understanding.
In the Red Book, Jung writes: “When something long since passed . . . comes back again in a changed world, it is new. To give birth to the ancient in a new time is creation.” The ancient ancestors are now coming back into the world through dreams, bringing a new energy – a revitalization of the psyche both individually and collectively. Jung deeply valued the archaic levels of human consciousness and often encouraged his patients to make contact with the “the two-million-year-old” man or woman within. He claimed “most of our difficulties come from losing contact with our instincts, with the age-old unforgotten wisdom stored up in us.”
From the point of view of contemporary individuals divorced from the ancestral psyche, Jung is an important guiding light, especially for Westerners and modern and postmodern people everywhere. He elucidates a path which can be seen as leading through a potentially far-reaching psychological and spiritual transformation process. Jung’s path of individuation is new for reasons similar to some of the comments articulated above; that is, there is an ascent and descent of consciousness and the goal of life is the Self, or divine fulfillment. Moreover there is a strong emphasis on archetypal or cosmic realization, which relates individual transformation to the collective.
Jung had a visionary experience just prior to his death, where he saw the following words engraved on a great round stone: “And this shall be a sign unto you of Wholeness and Oneness.” He then saw “a quadrangle of trees whose roots reached around the earth and enveloped him and among the roots golden threads were glittering.” Spiritual realization involves the spiritual mutation of the roots of being, and a transformed relationship of the fully surrendered individual to the cosmic Self and the attainment of Wholeness and Oneness, a highly individuated reflection of the Transcendent One.
The Family Is the Essential Psychospiritual Initiatory Vessel
When we tell stories about the family without judgment and without instant analysis. . . family history is transformed into myth. Whether we know it or not, our ideas about the family are rooted in the ways we imagine the family. That personal family, which seems so concrete, is always an imaginal entity. Part of our alchemical work with soul is to extract myth from the hard details of family history and memory on the principle that increase of imagination is always increase in soul. --Moore 1992, 32
The family is where the imagination seeds. The term "Family Constellations" was first used by Alfred Adler in a somewhat different context to refer to the phenomenon that each individual belongs to and is bonded in relationship to other members of his or her family system.
It is the environmental release mechanism for the activation and unfolding of the imaginal soul within us at birth. The hovering, brooding, incessant nurturing of the bio-archetypal Mother and Father validates not only the body and its awakening sensorium but also, much more profoundly, the psyche and its awakening spirit-eros. The mediation of the family helps us see not just the phenomenal outer world, but the noumenal inner world as well.
The family is the purest vessel of our destiny. More than the temenos of analysis, the sacraments of religion, the most transcendent of experiences, it is family that births us, develops us, procreates us, and buries us. We can never be more or less to life than what has been bequeathed to us by our ancestors. Regardless of the pain and travail it may create for us, family is the grail within which the sacred nectar of our physical and psychic DNA is carried from one generation to the next.
We can deepen our exploration of the ancient ancestors as a moving force of experience at work in our contemporary psyches. The ancestral field appears to function non-locally in that their influence is not space-time dependent, nor from what we can tell, are they subject to any causal limitations in the outer, natural world. Each manifestation of form appears in the world through a consolidation of the informational content of a DNA or archetypal blueprint, then congeals into a recognizable pattern.
We learn about the various archetypal configurations through these patterns. Our lines are incredibly rich in information. The pattern, which can change, is a manifestation of the information contained within a field and is not in and of itself autonomous. The understanding of field phenomena, including resonant patterns, depth, numinosity, coherence, and synchronicities, may help us to translate and convert unconscious behaviors into opportunities for greater understanding.
In the Red Book, Jung writes: “When something long since passed . . . comes back again in a changed world, it is new. To give birth to the ancient in a new time is creation.” The ancient ancestors are now coming back into the world through dreams, bringing a new energy – a revitalization of the psyche both individually and collectively. Jung deeply valued the archaic levels of human consciousness and often encouraged his patients to make contact with the “the two-million-year-old” man or woman within. He claimed “most of our difficulties come from losing contact with our instincts, with the age-old unforgotten wisdom stored up in us.”
From the point of view of contemporary individuals divorced from the ancestral psyche, Jung is an important guiding light, especially for Westerners and modern and postmodern people everywhere. He elucidates a path which can be seen as leading through a potentially far-reaching psychological and spiritual transformation process. Jung’s path of individuation is new for reasons similar to some of the comments articulated above; that is, there is an ascent and descent of consciousness and the goal of life is the Self, or divine fulfillment. Moreover there is a strong emphasis on archetypal or cosmic realization, which relates individual transformation to the collective.
Jung had a visionary experience just prior to his death, where he saw the following words engraved on a great round stone: “And this shall be a sign unto you of Wholeness and Oneness.” He then saw “a quadrangle of trees whose roots reached around the earth and enveloped him and among the roots golden threads were glittering.” Spiritual realization involves the spiritual mutation of the roots of being, and a transformed relationship of the fully surrendered individual to the cosmic Self and the attainment of Wholeness and Oneness, a highly individuated reflection of the Transcendent One.
Mother initiations call us to the healing of our own mother wounds and attachment issues, to look at how we have been, or not been, mothers to ourselves, to our children, and/or to our creations. When the Mother archetype is in shadow, the wounding with our own mother may be profound. Through Mother initiations, we are called to discover and heal the wounds that came from our conception, birth, the attachment issues with our mother, and other mother figures, as well as conditions that may have been passed down to us through our matri-lineage. We sometimes ‘carry’ the emotional burdens, wounds, unfulfilled dreams, and unfinished business of our mothers and ancestors.
When the mother archetype is constellated, it may also bring up issues related to sisters and grandmothers, as well as catalyze issues with close women friends. When the Mother archetype is in shadow, a woman may not know how, or be able to, take care of her own physical needs, be in her body, form an attachment to others, or nurture a child. She may feel incompetent, or be narcissistic and deny her child her own individuality and experiences. The shadow aspect of the Mother can cause a woman to be absent physically and/or emotionally from her children, ineffectual, controlling, demanding, clinging, devouring, manipulative, or guilt-inducing. She may simply not know how to take care of her children on a very basic physical or emotional level due to her own lack of healthy mothering.
Ref. https://ofj.org/story/october-1999-newsletter-archive
When the mother archetype is constellated, it may also bring up issues related to sisters and grandmothers, as well as catalyze issues with close women friends. When the Mother archetype is in shadow, a woman may not know how, or be able to, take care of her own physical needs, be in her body, form an attachment to others, or nurture a child. She may feel incompetent, or be narcissistic and deny her child her own individuality and experiences. The shadow aspect of the Mother can cause a woman to be absent physically and/or emotionally from her children, ineffectual, controlling, demanding, clinging, devouring, manipulative, or guilt-inducing. She may simply not know how to take care of her children on a very basic physical or emotional level due to her own lack of healthy mothering.
Ref. https://ofj.org/story/october-1999-newsletter-archive
Becoming: An Introduction to Jung's Concept of Individuation By Deldon Anne McNeely
Sacred Wounding
The Unhealing Wound & the Grail
Unhealed, Unconscious Wounds
Sometimes a tree tells you more than can be read in books.
~ C.G. Jung; Letters Volume 1; Page 179.
The Unhealing Wound & the Grail
Unhealed, Unconscious Wounds
Sometimes a tree tells you more than can be read in books.
~ C.G. Jung; Letters Volume 1; Page 179.
Our Tree tells us that our ancestor, 'Bran Fendigaid (Bran the Blessed ) was the Celtic prototype of 'Bron' -- the Rich Fisher or Fisher King. 'The immediate prototype of Chrétien's Fisher King has been recognized .. as Bran the Blessed, son of Llyr, the principle figure in the mabinogi of Branwen.' Loomis; The Grail, from Celtic Myth to Christian Symbol. He makes his first appearance in the twelfth-century 'Roman de l'Estoire du Graal' by Robert de Boron.
An angel announces that the vessel should pass into Bron's possession after Joseph imparted to him the secrets of the Grail, the words of Christ to Joseph in prison. Bron thenceforth would be called the Rich Fisher because of the fish he had caught, and he too, was to go westward to await Alain's son, to whom the vessel and the grace must be given. The three custodians would signify the Trinity. After Joseph told the secrets to Bron, the Good Fisher departed to the land where he was born."
According to Chretien de Troyes, Joseph gave the Grail the 'Holiest af all Holy relics,' to his brother-in-law, Bron, whose mission was to carry it into the far west to the 'Vaus d'Avaron.'
The Fisher King is called 'King Fisherman' in the Perlesvaus or High History of the Holy Grail
The legends of Bron, 'The Rich Fisher,' and Bran, 'The Blessed,' corespond in more ways than can be allowed for by coincidence. A long list of the most eminent Arthurian scholars including Heinrich, Martin, Nutt, Rhys, Brown, Nitze and Loomis all agree in regarding 'Bran Fendigaid' as the Celtic prototype of 'Bron' - the Rich Fisher or Fisher King.
An angel announces that the vessel should pass into Bron's possession after Joseph imparted to him the secrets of the Grail, the words of Christ to Joseph in prison. Bron thenceforth would be called the Rich Fisher because of the fish he had caught, and he too, was to go westward to await Alain's son, to whom the vessel and the grace must be given. The three custodians would signify the Trinity. After Joseph told the secrets to Bron, the Good Fisher departed to the land where he was born."
According to Chretien de Troyes, Joseph gave the Grail the 'Holiest af all Holy relics,' to his brother-in-law, Bron, whose mission was to carry it into the far west to the 'Vaus d'Avaron.'
The Fisher King is called 'King Fisherman' in the Perlesvaus or High History of the Holy Grail
The legends of Bron, 'The Rich Fisher,' and Bran, 'The Blessed,' corespond in more ways than can be allowed for by coincidence. A long list of the most eminent Arthurian scholars including Heinrich, Martin, Nutt, Rhys, Brown, Nitze and Loomis all agree in regarding 'Bran Fendigaid' as the Celtic prototype of 'Bron' - the Rich Fisher or Fisher King.
In Arthurian legend, the Fisher King, or the Wounded King, is the latest in a long line charged with keeping the Holy Grail. Versions vary widely, but he is always wounded in the legs or groin and incapable of moving on his own. The location of the wound is of great importance to the legend. In most medieval stories, the mention of a wound in the groin or more commonly the "thigh" is a euphemism for the physical loss of or grave injury to one's penis.
In medieval times, acknowledging the actual type of wound was considered to rob a man of his dignity. The substitute terms "groin" or "thigh"told any medieval listener or reader the real nature of the wound. This wound was considered worse than actual death because it signaled the end of a man's procreative ability to propagate his line. For the Fisher King, the wound negates his ability to honor his sacred charge.
The Fisher King is impotent and unable to perform his task himself. He also becomes unable to father or support a next generation to carry on after his death. His kingdom suffers as he does, his impotence affecting the fertility of the land and reducing it to a barren wasteland. All he is able to do is fish in the river near his castle, Corbenic, and wait for someone who might be able to heal him. Healing involves the expectation of the use of magic. Knights travel from many lands to heal the Fisher King, but only the chosen can accomplish the feat. This is Percival in earlier stories; in later versions, he is joined by Galahad and Bors. (Wikipedia)
A contemporary man’s whole sense of self-worth and potency in this world is often based on his own and others perception of his masculinity-sexuality. James Wyly (1987) discusses that the central core to most men is "his phallus, his libido, his sense of potency and ability to potentiate his own destiny, to create himself in accord with his inner image". The Parsifal myth is a medieval "man’s story" of restoring unity to misaligned masculinity and for men to start filling the emptiness that results from adherence to collective sexual values.
The wound to The Fisher King, via a spear through his testicles (to the tenderest part of the male anatomy), signifies a wounding to man's sense of potency and his self-esteem. The wounding in this "private part" of himself will not heal and equates to The Fisher Kings "Fall from Grace" (the noble part of the king has fallen from grace). He is metaphorically expelled from the Garden of Eden (The Holy Grail).
Interestingly, The Fisher King only gets relief from his pain when he is fishing, meaning, doing reflective work on himself. The Fisher King’s kingdom has been laid to waste, the meadows and flowers are dried up and the waters shrunken. The suggestion is that any malaise to the king is mirrored in his kingdom. This implies that if there is a wound to the "kingly-inner man", then the whole personality [his whole world] will be troubled! As if by magic, whenever the Fisher King is healed the lands surrounding the king will be healed instantly. http://www.menweb.org/woundedmasc.htm
In medieval times, acknowledging the actual type of wound was considered to rob a man of his dignity. The substitute terms "groin" or "thigh"told any medieval listener or reader the real nature of the wound. This wound was considered worse than actual death because it signaled the end of a man's procreative ability to propagate his line. For the Fisher King, the wound negates his ability to honor his sacred charge.
The Fisher King is impotent and unable to perform his task himself. He also becomes unable to father or support a next generation to carry on after his death. His kingdom suffers as he does, his impotence affecting the fertility of the land and reducing it to a barren wasteland. All he is able to do is fish in the river near his castle, Corbenic, and wait for someone who might be able to heal him. Healing involves the expectation of the use of magic. Knights travel from many lands to heal the Fisher King, but only the chosen can accomplish the feat. This is Percival in earlier stories; in later versions, he is joined by Galahad and Bors. (Wikipedia)
A contemporary man’s whole sense of self-worth and potency in this world is often based on his own and others perception of his masculinity-sexuality. James Wyly (1987) discusses that the central core to most men is "his phallus, his libido, his sense of potency and ability to potentiate his own destiny, to create himself in accord with his inner image". The Parsifal myth is a medieval "man’s story" of restoring unity to misaligned masculinity and for men to start filling the emptiness that results from adherence to collective sexual values.
The wound to The Fisher King, via a spear through his testicles (to the tenderest part of the male anatomy), signifies a wounding to man's sense of potency and his self-esteem. The wounding in this "private part" of himself will not heal and equates to The Fisher Kings "Fall from Grace" (the noble part of the king has fallen from grace). He is metaphorically expelled from the Garden of Eden (The Holy Grail).
Interestingly, The Fisher King only gets relief from his pain when he is fishing, meaning, doing reflective work on himself. The Fisher King’s kingdom has been laid to waste, the meadows and flowers are dried up and the waters shrunken. The suggestion is that any malaise to the king is mirrored in his kingdom. This implies that if there is a wound to the "kingly-inner man", then the whole personality [his whole world] will be troubled! As if by magic, whenever the Fisher King is healed the lands surrounding the king will be healed instantly. http://www.menweb.org/woundedmasc.htm
SACRED WOUNDS
Everyone carries them—scars that define and shape our psyches. Sometimes they are physical, but most people carry scars that are invisible. How we approach this part of our humanity largely effects how we treat our fellow man. It has been said many times that “hurting people hurt people.” This wounding has caused wars, inquisitions, bloodshed, genocide, famine, fear and lots of pain -- the crazed and driven agendas of the past. This is the shadow side of morality, at best, and pathology, perversion or pure evil at worst.
It is very dangerous when a wound is so common in a culture that hardly anyone knows there is a problem. This applies to our loss of rootedness in our genealogy and the wisdom of our ancestors. The Fisher King was charged by God with guarding the Holy Grail, but incurred an incapacitating wound for his sin of pride. For too many, the Holy Grail is more money, more sex, more power... and the wound remains, gets bigger and deeper.
"The animus is the deposit, as it were, of all woman's ancestral experiences of man-and not only that, he is also a creative and procreative being." -C.G. Jung
Inextricably enmeshed in the life of every woman is a constellation of autonomous energy that Jung called animus, her masculine side. As a woman develops psychologically, animus changes, appearing and reappearing as child or adult, lover or enemy, king or slave, animal or spirit. All these manifestations of animus energy are reflected in her experience of masculinity, both in herself and in others.
Just as we have a personal unconscious and a transpersonal or collective conscious, we carry our own wounds, but also those of our predecessors. The Archetype of woundedness is described in the Grail Quest, as the never-healing Fisher King Wound. The wound of the Fisher King is the "mother complex" (Sanford). It can be an emotional blow to our masculinity or femininity. The question remains, "Whom does the Grail serve? Why is this man not allowed to be healed of his great wound?". A voice sounded in the silence: "The Grail serves the Grail King!"
http://www.scribd.com/doc/32791264/The-Fisher-King-Wound
Both men and women can have the wound: The wound is a double wound; symbolically the wound in the mouth is the fear to speak one’s truth, and the wound in the genitals by a fire brand corresponds to the wound of fear of God. Each of us, just like the young prince, yearns for spiritual guidance as well as for a connection to his God, to Spirit, to his Source. At the same time, we each fear the death and transformation that we must experience to do so.
Our fear makes us afraid of God. Our need makes us yearn for God..Fear holds us in our ego, insecure about ourselves and our power. Our need for Unity, on the other hand, creates a death wish which might take us into communion with the Source; this death wish is symbolic. In actuality, the need is for dissolution of the ego..Dissolution of the ego allows us to lose consciousness--in effect, to merge into the Borderland of Souls. Loss of ego also creates an incapacity to deal with the fear and insecurity of the ordinary world.
Fading into the Unconscious creates a “wasteland” out of the King’s Kingdom in the outer world while at the same time the King’s world becomes an inner world of fantasy and illusion. On the positive side, delving into the unconscious—fishing in the woodland lakes—provides an opportunity to the King for healing and regeneration of the soul, his imagination, his creativity, and his sexuality.
For us, the lesson is that the fear that holds us in egoic consciousness also blocks us from the realm of the Soul and all that implies--imagination, creativity, the archetypal Gods and their mythic adventures from all past histories. The Wound of the Fisher King is thus a Wound of the Soul creating the painful feeling of being separated from the Source.
His “Fisher King wound”, Johnson stresses, separates a man from his anima -- his inner feminine or “feeling function.” It is his relationship to his inner feminine that gives meaning to his life or deprives him of that meaning. Losing this “meaning” is death to a man..His relationship with his “inner woman” or his “outer woman” is “the Grail” symbol in the Legend of the Fisher King! The Grail, a cup, is a symbol of the feminine. Cups contain water -- a symbol for emotions! And the Grail in particular is a cup which holds the blood of the Son of God -- which is the Life Force.
Robert A. Johnson extends the lesson to the Western culture: "our story is telling us that a dreadful mistake occurred when our culture took the view that spirit is to be attained by the suppression of nature and instinct. Spirit can attain its divine heights only with the power of nature of provide the strength for its fulfillment. Only too often the cultural man kills his natural man and nature replies by making the cultural man impotent...The fisher king wound is to be seen on the face of almost any man who passes on the street; the ache of life, the anxiety, dread, loneliness, the corners of the mouth pointing down--all are summed up by the fisher king wound."
So, what’s a wounded person left to do? For some cultures, to be wounded is a rite of passage which leads into adulthood. My sacred wound is always open, always fresh, never a scar.
Our sacred wound is a very significant event in our lives, something traumatic, painful or deep… the memory of which informs your instinctual reactions.
The wounding is generally brought about as the result of a stupid, careless, thoughtless accident.... so there is normally no one who can be blamed with purposely, intentionally, maliciously wounding us. The wounding was generally done by someone close to us...., someone we thought well of and trusted. So the wounding is a wounding of trust.
Just as the hero may need guides and assistants to set out on the quest, oftentimes he or she must have powerful guides and rescuers to bring them back to everyday life, especially if the person has been wounded or weakened by the experience. The point of this work is to establish a relating and relationship with the wound. Time is thus essential to the healing of our betrayals. Time reveals the Larger Story, hidden to primal consciousness, in which we must play a part.
The point is NOT to get rid of the wound. Sacred psychology is the process and practice of soulmaking; and soulmaking, as you may have discovered, is not necessarily a happy thing. Critical parts of it are challenging.
Our genealogy is our Larger Story. As seed making begins with the wounding of the ovum by the sperm, so does soulmaking begin with the wounding of the psyche by the Larger Story. Transformation occurs in the discovery of the Larger Story. Often that means that the healing cannot happen for a long time, not until the context is larger, until the Pattern that Connects is manifest.
Betrayal, of all the woundings that may be suffered by the soul, can be the greatest agent of the sacred. This wound has always had an awful and luminous quality surrounding it. It marks the end of primal, unconscious trust, and forces upon us those terrible conditions that accompany the taking of the next step. . . . The condition of this trust has been a subtle and powerful binding that blocks the fullness of the greater consciousness needed to respond to new situations - situations that cannot be met within the old conditions.
Trust always contains the seeds of its own betrayal; the taboo implies and requires its own transgression. Betrayal allows for the coming of reflection and therefore of consciousness. . . . The loss of primary attachments permits the entry of the "gods," the entry of the More, of insights and knowings that you could not assimilate before. The message of betrayal is always that things are much more then they seem. . . .
The wounding becomes sacred when we are willing to release our old stories and to become the vehicles through which the new story may emerge into time. When we fail to do this, we tend to repeat the same old story over and over again. . . . Ultimately the refusal to accept the opening offered by betrayal leads you to self-betrayal. You betray yourself in belittling your deepest hopes, values, ambitions, and story. . . . The supreme disease of betrayal is paranoia, All human actions and affairs are seen under the rubric of betrayal as the constant for everything all of the time. . . .
Soulmaking requires that you die to one story to be reborn to a larger one. A renaissance, a rebirth, occurs not just because there is a rising of ancient and archetypal symbols. A renaissance happens because the soul is breached. In this wounding, the psyche is opened up and new questions begin to be asked about who we are in our depths. These powerful questions need not lead to alienation and withdrawal, but can lead to the seeding of the world with the newly released powers of the psyche. A Larger Story is revealed by the wounding. . .
The sacred wound is the wound that each of us has. No one is exempt. We all have the experiences of trauma, from others, by the circumstances of life, and by ourselves to ourselves. Mainly what we’re taught is how to master ourselves so that we don’t have to be with the trauma. But we’re not really taught how to both enter into the trauma and, even more significantly, create from the trauma. In order to create from any pain or any wounding, we actually first must relate with the wound, to feel it for a decent period of time, and to bring a quality of warmth or kindness to it. It is in the healing of the pain that our genius can emerge.
The healing of the sacred wound requires something known as the sacred journey. It is the journey we are all already on, but we don’t always hold our wounds with this kind of reverence, and as a result, the journey lacks a quality of reverence. And when we don’t hold our sacred wound with a quality of reverence, when we hold it as something that needs to be overcome, we essentially push it away. When we dishonor the wound, the world around us appears robotic, lonely, random, or, either mildly or very much a place of suffering. In other words, the way we regard our wounding has a direct effect on how we see the world.
In our betrayal, the other becomes the instrument of God, bringing us to a tragedy that needs our ennoblement in order to understand it. And the only way to be ennobled and to forgive truly is through love. In giving much more than one thought one could, one discovers that one has much more still to give. This is the mystery and miracle of love, and it changes the very fabric of reality, the very structure of our lives.
When we hold the wound as sacred, as the teacher, the priest, the father, the mother, the friend, the lover, then we begin a new, sacred journey with ourselves. When we regard our suffering as good news, we don’t need to destroy it, to overcome it, we get to meet it. And by meeting and relating with it, we get to deepen, widen, and expand to include more. The wound calls us toward our evolution, and it is our evolution, our transformation that is the genius we bring into the world. The wound calls us toward Mystery.
The Wounded Healer is the person who has gone through suffering, sometimes great, and as a result of that process has become a source of great wisdom, healing power and inspiration for others. In fact, the archetypal wounded healer undergoes a transformation as a result of their wound, their suffering and pain. They can actually transcend it, and successfully lead themselves to a path of service.
It is as if the wound itself helps you drive yourself to an inner journey that becomes the transformation itself. One strips away the selfish, ego-based feeling of being all alone in our wound and expands to see others and how if one chooses a different role, one can help. The Wounded Healer is often the Victim - He who must suffer the wounds of life to understand. Do you set yourself up to be a victim?
The retrieval of soul, then, is the reinstatement of soul in all its imaginal complexity and fragmentation, its meanings and meanderings. If the psyche protects against splintering, it is also prone to splintering its protection. Perhaps, then, we need to 're-vision' soul retrieval by viewing it not only as a reintegration of the personality, but also as the reinstatement of polytheistic soul that is at the heart of the 'I-Thou' of human and Cosmic life.
We are not alone and that our struggles, darkness and suffering. In a mythic context they have an innate purpose and direction - a healing restoration of the individual to his/her place in the overall mythic scheme and boundless mysterium of the Cosmos.
It is precisely here that the shaman's power to retrieve soul must meld with the therapist's ability to discern whether reunification is helping or stifling the death-in-life of the elusive butterfly of soul. Key myths provide a metaphor and universal context for wounding and healing. Through identifying with a particular mythic protagonist, we can find a way out of the debilitating fear, loneliness, anguish, or sense or meaninglessness that can be triggered by pain. It is when these avenues of 'mythic contextualization' are blocked by pathological dissociation and its accompanying chronic fragmentation of the ego, that shamanic intervention can be helpful.
Ref. http://www.jungcircle.com/ind.html
Everyone carries them—scars that define and shape our psyches. Sometimes they are physical, but most people carry scars that are invisible. How we approach this part of our humanity largely effects how we treat our fellow man. It has been said many times that “hurting people hurt people.” This wounding has caused wars, inquisitions, bloodshed, genocide, famine, fear and lots of pain -- the crazed and driven agendas of the past. This is the shadow side of morality, at best, and pathology, perversion or pure evil at worst.
It is very dangerous when a wound is so common in a culture that hardly anyone knows there is a problem. This applies to our loss of rootedness in our genealogy and the wisdom of our ancestors. The Fisher King was charged by God with guarding the Holy Grail, but incurred an incapacitating wound for his sin of pride. For too many, the Holy Grail is more money, more sex, more power... and the wound remains, gets bigger and deeper.
"The animus is the deposit, as it were, of all woman's ancestral experiences of man-and not only that, he is also a creative and procreative being." -C.G. Jung
Inextricably enmeshed in the life of every woman is a constellation of autonomous energy that Jung called animus, her masculine side. As a woman develops psychologically, animus changes, appearing and reappearing as child or adult, lover or enemy, king or slave, animal or spirit. All these manifestations of animus energy are reflected in her experience of masculinity, both in herself and in others.
Just as we have a personal unconscious and a transpersonal or collective conscious, we carry our own wounds, but also those of our predecessors. The Archetype of woundedness is described in the Grail Quest, as the never-healing Fisher King Wound. The wound of the Fisher King is the "mother complex" (Sanford). It can be an emotional blow to our masculinity or femininity. The question remains, "Whom does the Grail serve? Why is this man not allowed to be healed of his great wound?". A voice sounded in the silence: "The Grail serves the Grail King!"
http://www.scribd.com/doc/32791264/The-Fisher-King-Wound
Both men and women can have the wound: The wound is a double wound; symbolically the wound in the mouth is the fear to speak one’s truth, and the wound in the genitals by a fire brand corresponds to the wound of fear of God. Each of us, just like the young prince, yearns for spiritual guidance as well as for a connection to his God, to Spirit, to his Source. At the same time, we each fear the death and transformation that we must experience to do so.
Our fear makes us afraid of God. Our need makes us yearn for God..Fear holds us in our ego, insecure about ourselves and our power. Our need for Unity, on the other hand, creates a death wish which might take us into communion with the Source; this death wish is symbolic. In actuality, the need is for dissolution of the ego..Dissolution of the ego allows us to lose consciousness--in effect, to merge into the Borderland of Souls. Loss of ego also creates an incapacity to deal with the fear and insecurity of the ordinary world.
Fading into the Unconscious creates a “wasteland” out of the King’s Kingdom in the outer world while at the same time the King’s world becomes an inner world of fantasy and illusion. On the positive side, delving into the unconscious—fishing in the woodland lakes—provides an opportunity to the King for healing and regeneration of the soul, his imagination, his creativity, and his sexuality.
For us, the lesson is that the fear that holds us in egoic consciousness also blocks us from the realm of the Soul and all that implies--imagination, creativity, the archetypal Gods and their mythic adventures from all past histories. The Wound of the Fisher King is thus a Wound of the Soul creating the painful feeling of being separated from the Source.
His “Fisher King wound”, Johnson stresses, separates a man from his anima -- his inner feminine or “feeling function.” It is his relationship to his inner feminine that gives meaning to his life or deprives him of that meaning. Losing this “meaning” is death to a man..His relationship with his “inner woman” or his “outer woman” is “the Grail” symbol in the Legend of the Fisher King! The Grail, a cup, is a symbol of the feminine. Cups contain water -- a symbol for emotions! And the Grail in particular is a cup which holds the blood of the Son of God -- which is the Life Force.
Robert A. Johnson extends the lesson to the Western culture: "our story is telling us that a dreadful mistake occurred when our culture took the view that spirit is to be attained by the suppression of nature and instinct. Spirit can attain its divine heights only with the power of nature of provide the strength for its fulfillment. Only too often the cultural man kills his natural man and nature replies by making the cultural man impotent...The fisher king wound is to be seen on the face of almost any man who passes on the street; the ache of life, the anxiety, dread, loneliness, the corners of the mouth pointing down--all are summed up by the fisher king wound."
So, what’s a wounded person left to do? For some cultures, to be wounded is a rite of passage which leads into adulthood. My sacred wound is always open, always fresh, never a scar.
Our sacred wound is a very significant event in our lives, something traumatic, painful or deep… the memory of which informs your instinctual reactions.
The wounding is generally brought about as the result of a stupid, careless, thoughtless accident.... so there is normally no one who can be blamed with purposely, intentionally, maliciously wounding us. The wounding was generally done by someone close to us...., someone we thought well of and trusted. So the wounding is a wounding of trust.
Just as the hero may need guides and assistants to set out on the quest, oftentimes he or she must have powerful guides and rescuers to bring them back to everyday life, especially if the person has been wounded or weakened by the experience. The point of this work is to establish a relating and relationship with the wound. Time is thus essential to the healing of our betrayals. Time reveals the Larger Story, hidden to primal consciousness, in which we must play a part.
The point is NOT to get rid of the wound. Sacred psychology is the process and practice of soulmaking; and soulmaking, as you may have discovered, is not necessarily a happy thing. Critical parts of it are challenging.
Our genealogy is our Larger Story. As seed making begins with the wounding of the ovum by the sperm, so does soulmaking begin with the wounding of the psyche by the Larger Story. Transformation occurs in the discovery of the Larger Story. Often that means that the healing cannot happen for a long time, not until the context is larger, until the Pattern that Connects is manifest.
Betrayal, of all the woundings that may be suffered by the soul, can be the greatest agent of the sacred. This wound has always had an awful and luminous quality surrounding it. It marks the end of primal, unconscious trust, and forces upon us those terrible conditions that accompany the taking of the next step. . . . The condition of this trust has been a subtle and powerful binding that blocks the fullness of the greater consciousness needed to respond to new situations - situations that cannot be met within the old conditions.
Trust always contains the seeds of its own betrayal; the taboo implies and requires its own transgression. Betrayal allows for the coming of reflection and therefore of consciousness. . . . The loss of primary attachments permits the entry of the "gods," the entry of the More, of insights and knowings that you could not assimilate before. The message of betrayal is always that things are much more then they seem. . . .
The wounding becomes sacred when we are willing to release our old stories and to become the vehicles through which the new story may emerge into time. When we fail to do this, we tend to repeat the same old story over and over again. . . . Ultimately the refusal to accept the opening offered by betrayal leads you to self-betrayal. You betray yourself in belittling your deepest hopes, values, ambitions, and story. . . . The supreme disease of betrayal is paranoia, All human actions and affairs are seen under the rubric of betrayal as the constant for everything all of the time. . . .
Soulmaking requires that you die to one story to be reborn to a larger one. A renaissance, a rebirth, occurs not just because there is a rising of ancient and archetypal symbols. A renaissance happens because the soul is breached. In this wounding, the psyche is opened up and new questions begin to be asked about who we are in our depths. These powerful questions need not lead to alienation and withdrawal, but can lead to the seeding of the world with the newly released powers of the psyche. A Larger Story is revealed by the wounding. . .
The sacred wound is the wound that each of us has. No one is exempt. We all have the experiences of trauma, from others, by the circumstances of life, and by ourselves to ourselves. Mainly what we’re taught is how to master ourselves so that we don’t have to be with the trauma. But we’re not really taught how to both enter into the trauma and, even more significantly, create from the trauma. In order to create from any pain or any wounding, we actually first must relate with the wound, to feel it for a decent period of time, and to bring a quality of warmth or kindness to it. It is in the healing of the pain that our genius can emerge.
The healing of the sacred wound requires something known as the sacred journey. It is the journey we are all already on, but we don’t always hold our wounds with this kind of reverence, and as a result, the journey lacks a quality of reverence. And when we don’t hold our sacred wound with a quality of reverence, when we hold it as something that needs to be overcome, we essentially push it away. When we dishonor the wound, the world around us appears robotic, lonely, random, or, either mildly or very much a place of suffering. In other words, the way we regard our wounding has a direct effect on how we see the world.
In our betrayal, the other becomes the instrument of God, bringing us to a tragedy that needs our ennoblement in order to understand it. And the only way to be ennobled and to forgive truly is through love. In giving much more than one thought one could, one discovers that one has much more still to give. This is the mystery and miracle of love, and it changes the very fabric of reality, the very structure of our lives.
When we hold the wound as sacred, as the teacher, the priest, the father, the mother, the friend, the lover, then we begin a new, sacred journey with ourselves. When we regard our suffering as good news, we don’t need to destroy it, to overcome it, we get to meet it. And by meeting and relating with it, we get to deepen, widen, and expand to include more. The wound calls us toward our evolution, and it is our evolution, our transformation that is the genius we bring into the world. The wound calls us toward Mystery.
The Wounded Healer is the person who has gone through suffering, sometimes great, and as a result of that process has become a source of great wisdom, healing power and inspiration for others. In fact, the archetypal wounded healer undergoes a transformation as a result of their wound, their suffering and pain. They can actually transcend it, and successfully lead themselves to a path of service.
It is as if the wound itself helps you drive yourself to an inner journey that becomes the transformation itself. One strips away the selfish, ego-based feeling of being all alone in our wound and expands to see others and how if one chooses a different role, one can help. The Wounded Healer is often the Victim - He who must suffer the wounds of life to understand. Do you set yourself up to be a victim?
The retrieval of soul, then, is the reinstatement of soul in all its imaginal complexity and fragmentation, its meanings and meanderings. If the psyche protects against splintering, it is also prone to splintering its protection. Perhaps, then, we need to 're-vision' soul retrieval by viewing it not only as a reintegration of the personality, but also as the reinstatement of polytheistic soul that is at the heart of the 'I-Thou' of human and Cosmic life.
We are not alone and that our struggles, darkness and suffering. In a mythic context they have an innate purpose and direction - a healing restoration of the individual to his/her place in the overall mythic scheme and boundless mysterium of the Cosmos.
It is precisely here that the shaman's power to retrieve soul must meld with the therapist's ability to discern whether reunification is helping or stifling the death-in-life of the elusive butterfly of soul. Key myths provide a metaphor and universal context for wounding and healing. Through identifying with a particular mythic protagonist, we can find a way out of the debilitating fear, loneliness, anguish, or sense or meaninglessness that can be triggered by pain. It is when these avenues of 'mythic contextualization' are blocked by pathological dissociation and its accompanying chronic fragmentation of the ego, that shamanic intervention can be helpful.
Ref. http://www.jungcircle.com/ind.html
The Grail is Here
Eros and the Shattering Gaze: Transcending Narcissism By Kenneth A. Kimmel
http://books.google.com/books?id=p4Vo9d6tQQoC&printsec=frontcover#v=onepage&q&f=false
http://books.google.com/books?id=p4Vo9d6tQQoC&printsec=frontcover#v=onepage&q&f=false
Becoming: An Introduction to Jung's Concept of Individuation
By Deldon Anne McNeely
http://books.google.com/books?id=rs3Axzg04-cC&printsec=frontcover#v=onepage&q&f=false
By Deldon Anne McNeely
http://books.google.com/books?id=rs3Axzg04-cC&printsec=frontcover#v=onepage&q&f=false
Genealogy As A Tool For Self-Knowledge And Family Therapy
By Tom Rue (1998)
http://choicesmhc.com/?q=systems
Abstract.
This article discusses the rationale for incorporating genealogy into family therapy, explores related cultural and ethical issues, and gives examples of techniques. A Bowenian systems theoretical framework is assumed. The article touches upon the elements of genetics, culture, spirit, and emotion, as they relate to family narratives. [Twenty-three references]
Families are products of the society or societies which weave them, and they transmit the social strengths and frailties of those larger social institutions. While ancestry does not in any sense determine destiny, cognition of collective family experiences shapes development of individual and collective consciousness in crucial ways.
Narratives from the family tree, often grasped only partially or at a deep preconscious or symbolic level, can form the spiritual and social strands which make up the basic building blocks of families and societies much as the double-helix DNA comprises the more tangible building blocks of carbon-based life.
There can be little dispute that persons and family systems carry within them the roots of identity constructed through a multi-generational maturational process which involves genetics, culture, spirit, and emotion. These four core elements, perhaps plus others, but essentially these, are viewed by this writer as keys to self-knowledge and processes of therapy. Information gathered through genealogical research can shed light on each of these areas, to aid in identity clarification and individuation.
The resulting construct of identity, for both families and individuals, is the lens through which human existence and experience is filtered and defined. By attending to and perpetuating family story patterns, honoring rituals and traditions which carry meaning, the bonds of blood and love are strengthened and systems function to perpetuate the species and the divers values which gave them rise, and at a higher level has given rise to societies and human civilization as a whole.
Beginning to learn about one's heritage, even by speaking with available older relatives about their pasts, can help facilitate self-awareness as a member of a group and provide a bridge to a forgotten cultural base, empowering individuals and family systems to confirm or reweave their values, identify patterns, and make changes in personal, family and cultural activities; all of which in turn may give hope for curing present social ills.
Champagne (1990) found that structured genealogical exercises benefited some clients in her clinical mental health practice. "Like most counseling techniques, genealogical search counseling is not for all clients. The client's presenting problems, personality, and motivation all need to be taken into account before encouraging such an effort," she wrote. Champagne added, "With selected populations research into one's family history can serve as a foundation for personal healing, family communications, and personal" (p. 85).
Master family therapist Michael White uses a technique of helping family members "re-author" the manner in which they view and experience a wide range of problems and situations, such as child behavioral problems and fears, grief, separation anxiety, encopresis, anorexia nervosa, intellectual disability, schizophrenia, children in residential care, sexual abuse, and men who are violent (Hart, 1995).
Family patterns of repeated cut-offs, such as divorces, abandonments, or deaths, are significant information to family therapists. Survival themes may also be identified.
Writing about the analysis of society and culture from a Jungian perspective, Vergolias (1996) observed: "Within the family therapy context, Murray Bowen (1966) opened psychology's oedipally blind eyes to the skeletons hiding within the familial closet, skeletons not only of the living souls, but also of the ancestors from generations before. These skeletons remain unreal, unpractical, until we till through the fertile history of our familial past. Words, in the same manner, have a history, an ancestral past, and by uncovering the top-soil and tilling the roots of this etymological earth, we find the myths and meanings hidden within. What appears on
the surface may allow us to convey practical meaning, but it is what lies underneath which provides breadth and depth of understanding."
Gibson (1994) provides an example of using the genealogical search "to solidify my own sense of identity and process of differentiation." Gibson relates her experience and information gathered in a trip to her birthplace in Illinois to locate as many family members as possible. "I went to the area where my parents had met and to where my ancestors had immigrated. I retraced their past and mine by visiting where they lived and the people that they knew to learn where I had come from. I used Bowen's methodology in that I listened and observed 'at least partially outside the emotional field of the family,'" she explains.
In a training aid for library scientists entitled "Helping patrons with genealogy: Understanding genealogists ," staff at the Marguerite deAngeli Library (1998) in Lapeer County, Michigan are given the following information concerning the interest genealogy holds
for family therapists and sociologists in particular:
The use of family history and genograms for the professional development of counselors was first popularized in the 1950s and 1960s by Dr. Murray Bowen; he felt that the family therapist "must have a thorough understanding of his own position in the family; otherwise, his unresolved conflicts would obscure his ability to identify and counsel clients who required his professional objectivity" (Curtis[, 1984, p.] 36). Use of genograms continues to be advocated by many counselor educators, who believe "that persons in counseling will be able to progress to no higher level of psychological and emotional health than the level of their counselor" (Lawson & Gaushell[1988, p.] 162). Genograms have also been used as an educational tool for clinical sociologists "to introduce students to the sociological basis of family therapy and to deepen their awareness of the social transmission of family patterns" (Reed, 1994, p.] 255).
Said one sociology student who created a genogram as part of his education: "I communicated with the dead more surely than had I been in a seacute;ance and saw how their influence still shapes the path that my family is walking" (Reed[, 1994, p.] 259). And family histories have also been used by family nurses in order to examine "how the nurse's personal family background and experiences affect clinical practice" (Green[, 1983, p.] 191). In addition to using genograms in self-exploration as a part of counselor education, genograms are widely used by family therapists, family physicians, chemical dependency counselors, and others in clinical assessment of clients as a graphic tool for organizing the mass of information gathered during a family assessment and exploring patterns in the family system (McGoldrick & Green, 1986). Other authors advise medical patients on use of genealogical research techniques to map inherited diseases, physical traits conducive to disease, mental health problems, and addictive proclivities to alcohol and other drugs (Nelson-Anderson & Waters, 1995).
Entrepreneurs like WonderWare, and perhaps others, have capitalized on the intersecting market segments of genealogists and family therapists, offering special software for sale on the Internet, inviting the public to "explore the interpersonal universe at the speed of enlightenment." But many modern clinicians simply use a blank notepad, a blackboard, or a simple form to record simple or complex family patterns and examine inter-generational and inter-personal trends in clients' family histories on genograms like that portrayed by Gerlack (1997).
The growth of the Internet has greatly expanded public access to information of genealogical value, which was previously only available by writing to or visiting record repositories or centralized libraries. One on-line clearinghouse for amateur and professional genealogists alike is rootsweb.com, which maintains a high-volume e-mail discussion list on the broad topic of genealogy, called ROOTS-L. A database search for the word "genogram" produces few hits, perhaps due to the fact that the list is not heavily traveled by family therapists. However, in response to a question about notation on genealogical charts, Kimber
(1994) replied:
A graphic format that is used in medicine and psychiatry to convey a lot of information visually is a genogram. A starter source is McGoldrick, M., & Gerson, R. (1985). Genograms in Family Assessment (New York: Norton). Computerized versions also exist: see Gerson, R., & McGoldrick, M. (1985) "The computerized genogram." Primary Care, 12, 535-45. (Or search MedLine or PsycLit at a university library for more recent publications.) I doubt the medically oriented version would interface neatly with GEDCOM, unless you're handy at patching things.
A genogram can show who lived in a household at a given time, extramarital liaisons, births in chronological order, births by multiple marriages, who's living (at a cross-sectional point in time) and who's dead, which relationships were close and which conflicted, people's occupations, illnesses, and other relevant data.
There are symbols that can be used for psychiatric, medical, or substance abuse histories, but one warning: in the context of family history recording, it is debatable how appropriate this information is and also it may make your correspondents much less willing to provide you information.
One privacy concern about including psychiatric, medical, or addiction related information with genealogical data is the risk of discrimination. According to The Arc (1996, formerly the Association for Retarded Children in the United States), genetic discrimination is the differential treatment of individuals or their relatives based on their actual or presumed genetic differences as distinguished from discrimination based on having symptoms of a genetic-based disease. For example, of people who carry the gene for fragile X, the most common inherited cause of mental retardation, 20% will never display any form of mental retardation. Yet, because they carry the gene for fragile X, they could be treated as though they had mental retardation even though they do not (Boyle, 1995).
The best solution, clearly, is to be mindful of the possibility that some data can be misused, and to store disease-related data sets separately from genealogical information which might be published. Existing professional ethical codes hold that personally identifiable information contained in clinical records, for example, should not be made public. However, it is may be helpful for family members to review and interpret such data, with professional assistance when indicated, in light of its known or possible bearing to them.
Baker, Kotkin & Yocum (1976) also point out ethical concerns in gathering family folklore:
Because of the personal nature of the folklore that you will be collecting, you should be very careful to protect the privacy and rights of all family members. Be honest about your intent from the very beginning. Explain your reasons for doing the research. Is it a school assignment? Do you simply want to learn more about your family? Do you plan to publish your findings? The ultimate disposition of the collection may affect their willingness to talk about certain subjects (p. 6).
In the spiritual realm, genealogy can strengthen the connective ties to the faith of one's ancestors, be those ties Jewish, Christian, Muslim, Pagan, or other. Some moderns find current spiritual meaning in reconstructions of ancient religions which may have been suppressed for centuries. In conducting Celtic genealogical research, for example, searchers may discover modern relevance in learning the stories (FitzPatrick, 1991) or reverencing the ancient deities worshipped in those lands prior to their military subjugation by Roman armies during the last millennium.
The precise meaning which the student places upon these old stories and the old gods and goddesses will vary between listeners, depending in part upon what other religious influences may have been brought to bear, but some find spiritual meaning in reclaiming non-patriarchal mysteries which came near to being lost to the modern ages.
A searching study of ancestral traditions from any land may lead the student to examine the state present-day gender relations or sex roles (Markale, 1986) are viewed; the nature and place of sexuality and intimate relationships in life (Rue, 1998); current-day race relations in a nation originally predicated upon a slave-based economy (Gettleman, 1968); or the degree of reverence which the person may feel for the earth itself and connection to other life-forms who inhabit the globe (Campbell, 1968).
More conventional world religions, certain Jewish organizations for example, have made great strides in recent decades in collecting and preserving historical records. The Mormon church in Salt Lake City, though relatively modern in its founding, has become the unrivaled collector of genealogical data worldwide. The church's objectives in preserving and interpreting such data are exclusively spiritual and religious, based upon church teachings that the Biblical prophet Elijah directs church members to assemble the records of humanity's ancestors in preparation for a final day of reckoning and to afford those who have died the ability to choose to accept Mormon temple ordinances (baptisms, endowments, and sealing to spouses and parents, pursuant to Mormon priesthood authority) which are performed daily in the names of the world's dead by living proxies.
Likewise, Mormon volunteers systematically extract genealogical data from records of all religions and governments which allow it, to the point that the LDS church possesses the largest publicly accessible, and undeniably priceless, collection of genealogical material in the world. The National Archives and Record Administration is another excellent source. Searchers who are uncertain where to begin might do well to commence by contacting the National Genealogical Society, or a local historical association.
Invariably the best place to start a search, when possible, is with living relatives. The simple exercise of visiting or writing to older family members (Baker, Kotkin & Yocum, 1976), and asking them about shared heritage, can be a healing experience in itself which can prove as memorable and valuable as any information gathered.
References
Baker, Holly-Cutting; Kotkin, Amy; and Yocum, Margaret (1976). Family folklore: Interviewing guide and questionnaire, Smithsonian Institute, Family Folklore Program, Office of American Folklife Studies : Washington, DC.
Bowen, Murray
(1966). The use of family theory in clinical practice. Comprehensive Psychiatry, 7 : 345-374.
Boyle, P.J. (1995). Shaping priorities in genetic medicine. Hastings Center Report, 25 : S2-S8.
Campbell, Joseph (1968). Creative Mythology: The masks of God. Penguin Books : New York.
Champagne, Delight E. (1990). In the Field: The genealogical search as a counseling technique. Journal of Counseling & Development, 69 : Sept./Oct., 85-87.
Curtis, Betty J.L. (1984). "The Role of the Family History in Preventive Medicine: An Introduction for Medical Librarians." Medical Reference Services Quarterly, 3.4 : 35-44.
FitzPatrick, Nina (1991). Fables of the Irish Intelligentsia. Penguin Books : New York.
Gerlack, Peter K. (1997). Using genograms to help fix membership confusions and conflicts, Stepfamily Association of Illinois : Oak Park, IL. htp://members.aol.com/sai27/sum/geno2.htm
Gettleman, Marvin E. [Ed.] (1968). Black Protest: History, Documents, and Analyses, 1619 to the Present, CBS Publications : New York.
Gibson, Richelle (1994). Discovering Your Roots: Extended Family History with Implications for the Systems Therapist. Progress: Family Systems Resarch and Therapy, 1994, 3 : 53-67, Encino, CA : Phillips Graduate Institute. http://www.pgi.edu/gibson.htm
Abstract.
The personal genealogy of Richelle Ann Gibson is studied for four to five generations. Her Scandinavian and Polish ancestors immigrated to Chicago, Illinois in the late 1800's and early 1900's. This cross-cultural study investigates the impact of a transcontinental move on the dislocated family members and present generations. This research affects the present dynamics of the family system and is investigated in itself as part of the study. This genealogical study reconnects the dislocated family to its past and develops a cultural identity in the nuclear family of the author. Information was gathered by traveling back to Chicago and retracing the steps of her ancestors when they arrived in the United States from Europe. The project is analyzed from a Bowenian theoretical position and applications for the family therapist in practice are discussed.
Green, Clarissa P., et al. (1983). Skeletons in the Closet: Exploring personal family background as a prerequisite for family nursing. Journal of Advanced Nursing, 8 : 191-200.
Hart, Bruce (1995). Re-authoring the stories we work by: Situating the narrative approach in the presence of the family of therapists. Australian and New Zealand Journal of Family Therapy, 16: 4,181-189. http://home.iprolink.co.nz/~bruceh/article.html
Abstract.
This paper evaluates the work of the narrative school of family therapy, as developed by Michael White. This is examined in relation to the field of ideas in family therapy out of which it emerged, highlighting some of the similarities and differences. The lack of acknowledgement by narrative school of many of the commonalties that is shared with others is then considered. A second order perspective is taken situating the therapist's theory in the presence of the family of therapists to examine the development of the narrative approach to theory and practice. Constructionist contributions are considered in relation to the development of an eclectic approach where the therapist adopts a multiverse of theories to draw upon in practice. Development of theory becomes then a dialogue between different lenses rather than the development of any truth.
Kimber, Anne (1994). E-mail message [[email protected]], "Re: standard graphical notation for genealogy charts?" to Larry McWilliams on ROOTS-L Genealogy List [then [email protected]], Thu, 2 Jun 1994 19:43:00 CDT. Message retrievable at
http://searches.rootsweb.com/roots-l.html
Markale, Jean (1986). Women of the Celts. Inner Traditions Press : Rochester, VT, tr. by A. Mygind, C. Hauch & P. Henry (originally La Femme Celtic [Fr.], 1972, Editions Payot : Montreal, Quebec.)
McGoldrick, Mary & Green, Randy (1986). Genograms in Family Assessment. W.W. Norton & Co.
Lawson,
David M. and Harper Gaushell (1988). "Family Autobiography: A Useful Method for Enhancing Counselors' Personal Development." Counselor Education and Supervision, 28 December : 162-168.
Marguerite deAngeli Library (1998). Helping patrons with genealogy: Understanding geneaogists, Lapeer MI. On the web at www.lapeer.lib.mi.us/Library/Genealogy/part4.html
Nelson-Anderson, Danette L. & Waters, Cynthia V. (1995). Genetic Connections; A Guide To Documenting Your Individual And Family Health History, Sonters Publishing. On the web at www.opengroup.com/open/dfbooks/096/0963915436.shtml
Reed, Myer S. (1994). Digging up family plots: Analysis of axes of variation in genograms. Teaching Sociology, 22: 255-259.
Rue, Thomas S. (1998). Knowing and sharing your sexual heritage, private web page at sex.tomrue.net/heritage.htm.
The Arc (1996). Facts about genetic discrimination. The Arc (formerly Association for Retarded Children in the U.S.): Arlington, TX. http://thearc.org/faqs/discrq&a.html
Vergolias, George L. (1996). An exploration of psychic closets and Hermes in the consulting room, 26 October 1996, Donald Williams, LLC : Boulder, CO. On the web at www.cgjung.com/articles/vergol1.html
WonderWare, Inc. (no date). Genogram and Ecomap software (commercial site), Silver Spring, MD. http://www.clark.net/pub/wware/wware.html
By Tom Rue (1998)
http://choicesmhc.com/?q=systems
Abstract.
This article discusses the rationale for incorporating genealogy into family therapy, explores related cultural and ethical issues, and gives examples of techniques. A Bowenian systems theoretical framework is assumed. The article touches upon the elements of genetics, culture, spirit, and emotion, as they relate to family narratives. [Twenty-three references]
Families are products of the society or societies which weave them, and they transmit the social strengths and frailties of those larger social institutions. While ancestry does not in any sense determine destiny, cognition of collective family experiences shapes development of individual and collective consciousness in crucial ways.
Narratives from the family tree, often grasped only partially or at a deep preconscious or symbolic level, can form the spiritual and social strands which make up the basic building blocks of families and societies much as the double-helix DNA comprises the more tangible building blocks of carbon-based life.
There can be little dispute that persons and family systems carry within them the roots of identity constructed through a multi-generational maturational process which involves genetics, culture, spirit, and emotion. These four core elements, perhaps plus others, but essentially these, are viewed by this writer as keys to self-knowledge and processes of therapy. Information gathered through genealogical research can shed light on each of these areas, to aid in identity clarification and individuation.
The resulting construct of identity, for both families and individuals, is the lens through which human existence and experience is filtered and defined. By attending to and perpetuating family story patterns, honoring rituals and traditions which carry meaning, the bonds of blood and love are strengthened and systems function to perpetuate the species and the divers values which gave them rise, and at a higher level has given rise to societies and human civilization as a whole.
Beginning to learn about one's heritage, even by speaking with available older relatives about their pasts, can help facilitate self-awareness as a member of a group and provide a bridge to a forgotten cultural base, empowering individuals and family systems to confirm or reweave their values, identify patterns, and make changes in personal, family and cultural activities; all of which in turn may give hope for curing present social ills.
Champagne (1990) found that structured genealogical exercises benefited some clients in her clinical mental health practice. "Like most counseling techniques, genealogical search counseling is not for all clients. The client's presenting problems, personality, and motivation all need to be taken into account before encouraging such an effort," she wrote. Champagne added, "With selected populations research into one's family history can serve as a foundation for personal healing, family communications, and personal" (p. 85).
Master family therapist Michael White uses a technique of helping family members "re-author" the manner in which they view and experience a wide range of problems and situations, such as child behavioral problems and fears, grief, separation anxiety, encopresis, anorexia nervosa, intellectual disability, schizophrenia, children in residential care, sexual abuse, and men who are violent (Hart, 1995).
Family patterns of repeated cut-offs, such as divorces, abandonments, or deaths, are significant information to family therapists. Survival themes may also be identified.
Writing about the analysis of society and culture from a Jungian perspective, Vergolias (1996) observed: "Within the family therapy context, Murray Bowen (1966) opened psychology's oedipally blind eyes to the skeletons hiding within the familial closet, skeletons not only of the living souls, but also of the ancestors from generations before. These skeletons remain unreal, unpractical, until we till through the fertile history of our familial past. Words, in the same manner, have a history, an ancestral past, and by uncovering the top-soil and tilling the roots of this etymological earth, we find the myths and meanings hidden within. What appears on
the surface may allow us to convey practical meaning, but it is what lies underneath which provides breadth and depth of understanding."
Gibson (1994) provides an example of using the genealogical search "to solidify my own sense of identity and process of differentiation." Gibson relates her experience and information gathered in a trip to her birthplace in Illinois to locate as many family members as possible. "I went to the area where my parents had met and to where my ancestors had immigrated. I retraced their past and mine by visiting where they lived and the people that they knew to learn where I had come from. I used Bowen's methodology in that I listened and observed 'at least partially outside the emotional field of the family,'" she explains.
In a training aid for library scientists entitled "Helping patrons with genealogy: Understanding genealogists ," staff at the Marguerite deAngeli Library (1998) in Lapeer County, Michigan are given the following information concerning the interest genealogy holds
for family therapists and sociologists in particular:
The use of family history and genograms for the professional development of counselors was first popularized in the 1950s and 1960s by Dr. Murray Bowen; he felt that the family therapist "must have a thorough understanding of his own position in the family; otherwise, his unresolved conflicts would obscure his ability to identify and counsel clients who required his professional objectivity" (Curtis[, 1984, p.] 36). Use of genograms continues to be advocated by many counselor educators, who believe "that persons in counseling will be able to progress to no higher level of psychological and emotional health than the level of their counselor" (Lawson & Gaushell[1988, p.] 162). Genograms have also been used as an educational tool for clinical sociologists "to introduce students to the sociological basis of family therapy and to deepen their awareness of the social transmission of family patterns" (Reed, 1994, p.] 255).
Said one sociology student who created a genogram as part of his education: "I communicated with the dead more surely than had I been in a seacute;ance and saw how their influence still shapes the path that my family is walking" (Reed[, 1994, p.] 259). And family histories have also been used by family nurses in order to examine "how the nurse's personal family background and experiences affect clinical practice" (Green[, 1983, p.] 191). In addition to using genograms in self-exploration as a part of counselor education, genograms are widely used by family therapists, family physicians, chemical dependency counselors, and others in clinical assessment of clients as a graphic tool for organizing the mass of information gathered during a family assessment and exploring patterns in the family system (McGoldrick & Green, 1986). Other authors advise medical patients on use of genealogical research techniques to map inherited diseases, physical traits conducive to disease, mental health problems, and addictive proclivities to alcohol and other drugs (Nelson-Anderson & Waters, 1995).
Entrepreneurs like WonderWare, and perhaps others, have capitalized on the intersecting market segments of genealogists and family therapists, offering special software for sale on the Internet, inviting the public to "explore the interpersonal universe at the speed of enlightenment." But many modern clinicians simply use a blank notepad, a blackboard, or a simple form to record simple or complex family patterns and examine inter-generational and inter-personal trends in clients' family histories on genograms like that portrayed by Gerlack (1997).
The growth of the Internet has greatly expanded public access to information of genealogical value, which was previously only available by writing to or visiting record repositories or centralized libraries. One on-line clearinghouse for amateur and professional genealogists alike is rootsweb.com, which maintains a high-volume e-mail discussion list on the broad topic of genealogy, called ROOTS-L. A database search for the word "genogram" produces few hits, perhaps due to the fact that the list is not heavily traveled by family therapists. However, in response to a question about notation on genealogical charts, Kimber
(1994) replied:
A graphic format that is used in medicine and psychiatry to convey a lot of information visually is a genogram. A starter source is McGoldrick, M., & Gerson, R. (1985). Genograms in Family Assessment (New York: Norton). Computerized versions also exist: see Gerson, R., & McGoldrick, M. (1985) "The computerized genogram." Primary Care, 12, 535-45. (Or search MedLine or PsycLit at a university library for more recent publications.) I doubt the medically oriented version would interface neatly with GEDCOM, unless you're handy at patching things.
A genogram can show who lived in a household at a given time, extramarital liaisons, births in chronological order, births by multiple marriages, who's living (at a cross-sectional point in time) and who's dead, which relationships were close and which conflicted, people's occupations, illnesses, and other relevant data.
There are symbols that can be used for psychiatric, medical, or substance abuse histories, but one warning: in the context of family history recording, it is debatable how appropriate this information is and also it may make your correspondents much less willing to provide you information.
One privacy concern about including psychiatric, medical, or addiction related information with genealogical data is the risk of discrimination. According to The Arc (1996, formerly the Association for Retarded Children in the United States), genetic discrimination is the differential treatment of individuals or their relatives based on their actual or presumed genetic differences as distinguished from discrimination based on having symptoms of a genetic-based disease. For example, of people who carry the gene for fragile X, the most common inherited cause of mental retardation, 20% will never display any form of mental retardation. Yet, because they carry the gene for fragile X, they could be treated as though they had mental retardation even though they do not (Boyle, 1995).
The best solution, clearly, is to be mindful of the possibility that some data can be misused, and to store disease-related data sets separately from genealogical information which might be published. Existing professional ethical codes hold that personally identifiable information contained in clinical records, for example, should not be made public. However, it is may be helpful for family members to review and interpret such data, with professional assistance when indicated, in light of its known or possible bearing to them.
Baker, Kotkin & Yocum (1976) also point out ethical concerns in gathering family folklore:
Because of the personal nature of the folklore that you will be collecting, you should be very careful to protect the privacy and rights of all family members. Be honest about your intent from the very beginning. Explain your reasons for doing the research. Is it a school assignment? Do you simply want to learn more about your family? Do you plan to publish your findings? The ultimate disposition of the collection may affect their willingness to talk about certain subjects (p. 6).
In the spiritual realm, genealogy can strengthen the connective ties to the faith of one's ancestors, be those ties Jewish, Christian, Muslim, Pagan, or other. Some moderns find current spiritual meaning in reconstructions of ancient religions which may have been suppressed for centuries. In conducting Celtic genealogical research, for example, searchers may discover modern relevance in learning the stories (FitzPatrick, 1991) or reverencing the ancient deities worshipped in those lands prior to their military subjugation by Roman armies during the last millennium.
The precise meaning which the student places upon these old stories and the old gods and goddesses will vary between listeners, depending in part upon what other religious influences may have been brought to bear, but some find spiritual meaning in reclaiming non-patriarchal mysteries which came near to being lost to the modern ages.
A searching study of ancestral traditions from any land may lead the student to examine the state present-day gender relations or sex roles (Markale, 1986) are viewed; the nature and place of sexuality and intimate relationships in life (Rue, 1998); current-day race relations in a nation originally predicated upon a slave-based economy (Gettleman, 1968); or the degree of reverence which the person may feel for the earth itself and connection to other life-forms who inhabit the globe (Campbell, 1968).
More conventional world religions, certain Jewish organizations for example, have made great strides in recent decades in collecting and preserving historical records. The Mormon church in Salt Lake City, though relatively modern in its founding, has become the unrivaled collector of genealogical data worldwide. The church's objectives in preserving and interpreting such data are exclusively spiritual and religious, based upon church teachings that the Biblical prophet Elijah directs church members to assemble the records of humanity's ancestors in preparation for a final day of reckoning and to afford those who have died the ability to choose to accept Mormon temple ordinances (baptisms, endowments, and sealing to spouses and parents, pursuant to Mormon priesthood authority) which are performed daily in the names of the world's dead by living proxies.
Likewise, Mormon volunteers systematically extract genealogical data from records of all religions and governments which allow it, to the point that the LDS church possesses the largest publicly accessible, and undeniably priceless, collection of genealogical material in the world. The National Archives and Record Administration is another excellent source. Searchers who are uncertain where to begin might do well to commence by contacting the National Genealogical Society, or a local historical association.
Invariably the best place to start a search, when possible, is with living relatives. The simple exercise of visiting or writing to older family members (Baker, Kotkin & Yocum, 1976), and asking them about shared heritage, can be a healing experience in itself which can prove as memorable and valuable as any information gathered.
References
Baker, Holly-Cutting; Kotkin, Amy; and Yocum, Margaret (1976). Family folklore: Interviewing guide and questionnaire, Smithsonian Institute, Family Folklore Program, Office of American Folklife Studies : Washington, DC.
Bowen, Murray
(1966). The use of family theory in clinical practice. Comprehensive Psychiatry, 7 : 345-374.
Boyle, P.J. (1995). Shaping priorities in genetic medicine. Hastings Center Report, 25 : S2-S8.
Campbell, Joseph (1968). Creative Mythology: The masks of God. Penguin Books : New York.
Champagne, Delight E. (1990). In the Field: The genealogical search as a counseling technique. Journal of Counseling & Development, 69 : Sept./Oct., 85-87.
Curtis, Betty J.L. (1984). "The Role of the Family History in Preventive Medicine: An Introduction for Medical Librarians." Medical Reference Services Quarterly, 3.4 : 35-44.
FitzPatrick, Nina (1991). Fables of the Irish Intelligentsia. Penguin Books : New York.
Gerlack, Peter K. (1997). Using genograms to help fix membership confusions and conflicts, Stepfamily Association of Illinois : Oak Park, IL. htp://members.aol.com/sai27/sum/geno2.htm
Gettleman, Marvin E. [Ed.] (1968). Black Protest: History, Documents, and Analyses, 1619 to the Present, CBS Publications : New York.
Gibson, Richelle (1994). Discovering Your Roots: Extended Family History with Implications for the Systems Therapist. Progress: Family Systems Resarch and Therapy, 1994, 3 : 53-67, Encino, CA : Phillips Graduate Institute. http://www.pgi.edu/gibson.htm
Abstract.
The personal genealogy of Richelle Ann Gibson is studied for four to five generations. Her Scandinavian and Polish ancestors immigrated to Chicago, Illinois in the late 1800's and early 1900's. This cross-cultural study investigates the impact of a transcontinental move on the dislocated family members and present generations. This research affects the present dynamics of the family system and is investigated in itself as part of the study. This genealogical study reconnects the dislocated family to its past and develops a cultural identity in the nuclear family of the author. Information was gathered by traveling back to Chicago and retracing the steps of her ancestors when they arrived in the United States from Europe. The project is analyzed from a Bowenian theoretical position and applications for the family therapist in practice are discussed.
Green, Clarissa P., et al. (1983). Skeletons in the Closet: Exploring personal family background as a prerequisite for family nursing. Journal of Advanced Nursing, 8 : 191-200.
Hart, Bruce (1995). Re-authoring the stories we work by: Situating the narrative approach in the presence of the family of therapists. Australian and New Zealand Journal of Family Therapy, 16: 4,181-189. http://home.iprolink.co.nz/~bruceh/article.html
Abstract.
This paper evaluates the work of the narrative school of family therapy, as developed by Michael White. This is examined in relation to the field of ideas in family therapy out of which it emerged, highlighting some of the similarities and differences. The lack of acknowledgement by narrative school of many of the commonalties that is shared with others is then considered. A second order perspective is taken situating the therapist's theory in the presence of the family of therapists to examine the development of the narrative approach to theory and practice. Constructionist contributions are considered in relation to the development of an eclectic approach where the therapist adopts a multiverse of theories to draw upon in practice. Development of theory becomes then a dialogue between different lenses rather than the development of any truth.
Kimber, Anne (1994). E-mail message [[email protected]], "Re: standard graphical notation for genealogy charts?" to Larry McWilliams on ROOTS-L Genealogy List [then [email protected]], Thu, 2 Jun 1994 19:43:00 CDT. Message retrievable at
http://searches.rootsweb.com/roots-l.html
Markale, Jean (1986). Women of the Celts. Inner Traditions Press : Rochester, VT, tr. by A. Mygind, C. Hauch & P. Henry (originally La Femme Celtic [Fr.], 1972, Editions Payot : Montreal, Quebec.)
McGoldrick, Mary & Green, Randy (1986). Genograms in Family Assessment. W.W. Norton & Co.
Lawson,
David M. and Harper Gaushell (1988). "Family Autobiography: A Useful Method for Enhancing Counselors' Personal Development." Counselor Education and Supervision, 28 December : 162-168.
Marguerite deAngeli Library (1998). Helping patrons with genealogy: Understanding geneaogists, Lapeer MI. On the web at www.lapeer.lib.mi.us/Library/Genealogy/part4.html
Nelson-Anderson, Danette L. & Waters, Cynthia V. (1995). Genetic Connections; A Guide To Documenting Your Individual And Family Health History, Sonters Publishing. On the web at www.opengroup.com/open/dfbooks/096/0963915436.shtml
Reed, Myer S. (1994). Digging up family plots: Analysis of axes of variation in genograms. Teaching Sociology, 22: 255-259.
Rue, Thomas S. (1998). Knowing and sharing your sexual heritage, private web page at sex.tomrue.net/heritage.htm.
The Arc (1996). Facts about genetic discrimination. The Arc (formerly Association for Retarded Children in the U.S.): Arlington, TX. http://thearc.org/faqs/discrq&a.html
Vergolias, George L. (1996). An exploration of psychic closets and Hermes in the consulting room, 26 October 1996, Donald Williams, LLC : Boulder, CO. On the web at www.cgjung.com/articles/vergol1.html
WonderWare, Inc. (no date). Genogram and Ecomap software (commercial site), Silver Spring, MD. http://www.clark.net/pub/wware/wware.html
Psychology Today - Why do people spend decades tracing their lineages? Thinking about one's ancestors provides comfort, improves one's ability to deal with challenges and actually boosts cognitive performance, new research shows.
In a simple experiment, researchers asked people to think about their ancestors (or something else) and then measured their beliefs about their own performance on several cognitive tests. People who had been made to think about their ancestors expected to do better on the tests.
But did they actually do better? Yes. Researchers Peter Fischer, Anne Sauer, Claudia Vogrincic and Silke Weisweiler found that people who had recently thought about their ancestors actually did better on cognitive tests of intelligence than people who had been made to think of other things.
In a simple experiment, researchers asked people to think about their ancestors (or something else) and then measured their beliefs about their own performance on several cognitive tests. People who had been made to think about their ancestors expected to do better on the tests.
But did they actually do better? Yes. Researchers Peter Fischer, Anne Sauer, Claudia Vogrincic and Silke Weisweiler found that people who had recently thought about their ancestors actually did better on cognitive tests of intelligence than people who had been made to think of other things.
Whose Neurosis is This, Anyway?
Trans-generational Transmission of Trauma
by Abigail Brenner, M.D.
http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/in-flux/201309/whose-neurosis-is-anyway
Studies have shown that there is a permeability that exists between a child’s psyche and that of the mother (caretaker), a kind of “osmosis” that allows for the passing of ideas and affects from the mother/caretaker to the child. While much of what is transmitted may be healthy and normal for the developing child, that is obviously not the case with trauma. In this scenario, what is transmitted to the child from the mother/caretaker may interfere with the child’s psychological growth and developing identity.
Even before researching and writing my book on the replacement child (to be published this year) I had been struck by the way a parent’s unresolved issue(s), or “unfinished business” as I refer to it, often finds its way into the psyche of the child, even when the child has had no direct knowledge of the issue, problem, conflict, or trauma suffered by the parent.
Without things ever being said, without actually knowing, children often ‘know.’ In many cases, children intuitively understand what has happened to their parents. Family secrets can backfire because nothing is ever really hidden. This osmotic passing of information between generations is somehow planted subconsciously into children. And often what has happened is hidden away because it’s unacceptable. To acknowledge it is to admit to the pain and the trauma. But children know and sometimes reenact that very same trauma---as if to somehow finish the family business.
Vamik Volkan has written about deposit representations “which are representations of self or others deposited into the child's developing self -representation by traumatized parents.” And this is applicable to all kinds of trauma but specifically those pertaining to loss. “It is in the form of such representations that replacement children carry the legacy of a parental or generational distortion of mourning after traumatic history.”
In their paper Trans-generational Transmission and Deposited Representations: Psychological Burdens Visited by One Generation upon Another, Volkan and Greer describe how “a mother has an internalized formed image of her child who has died. She deposits this image into the developing self-representation of her next-born child, usually born after the first child’s death.” The replacement child then serves as the “reservoir” where the deceased child will be kept “alive”.
The replacement child is assigned (mostly unconsciously) specific psychological tasks in order to preserve what is deposited. Inevitably, this presents quite a dilemma for replacement children whose own identity has been high jacked---they can’t be who they are in their own right, they obviously can’t be the dead person, and yet somehow they’re expected to embody the representation of the deceased child from the parent’s perspective.
Trans-generational transmission on a societal level utilizes a similar mechanism, except that here the transmission occurs on a larger scale; the transmission of group trauma from generation to generation. Emeritus Professor of Psychiatry Vamik Volkan has extensively studied larger group dynamics, such as ethnic groups, and has found that, when a group suffers a catastrophe at the hands of an enemy, the self-images of individuals within the group are traumatized by this common event. The second generation then becomes the recipient of these traumatized images.
The second generation and those generations that follow are “assigned’ specific tasks as well; for example, mourning for the losses of their parents or ancestors, or taking revenge on the present group representing their parents’ enemies. Volkan emphasizes that “it is this trans-generational conveyance of long-lasting “tasks” that perpetuates the cycle of societal trauma… whatever its expression in a given generation, keeping alive the mental representation of the ancestors’ trauma remains the core task. Further, since the task is shared, each new generation’s burden reinforces the large-group identity and keeps its complexities “alive.”
So whether on the individual or societal level, the issue seems to be about breaking the cycle of trauma altogether, and thus freeing all participants from having to identify with a traumatic and/or unresolved past. On a societal level, this would certainly have a healing effect on a world full of “holocausts” --- wars, slavery, and genocide. On an individual level, breaking the cycle of depositing parental trauma of any kind would free children from the burden of carrying the “unfinished business” of their parents’ lives. From the perspective of the replacement child, breaking the cycle of unresolved parental grief and mourning and the consequences that result from it, would allow subsequent children to be who they are, to own their own identity, without the encumbering load of pathological and unrealistic parental expectations.
Trans-generational Transmission of Trauma
by Abigail Brenner, M.D.
http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/in-flux/201309/whose-neurosis-is-anyway
Studies have shown that there is a permeability that exists between a child’s psyche and that of the mother (caretaker), a kind of “osmosis” that allows for the passing of ideas and affects from the mother/caretaker to the child. While much of what is transmitted may be healthy and normal for the developing child, that is obviously not the case with trauma. In this scenario, what is transmitted to the child from the mother/caretaker may interfere with the child’s psychological growth and developing identity.
Even before researching and writing my book on the replacement child (to be published this year) I had been struck by the way a parent’s unresolved issue(s), or “unfinished business” as I refer to it, often finds its way into the psyche of the child, even when the child has had no direct knowledge of the issue, problem, conflict, or trauma suffered by the parent.
Without things ever being said, without actually knowing, children often ‘know.’ In many cases, children intuitively understand what has happened to their parents. Family secrets can backfire because nothing is ever really hidden. This osmotic passing of information between generations is somehow planted subconsciously into children. And often what has happened is hidden away because it’s unacceptable. To acknowledge it is to admit to the pain and the trauma. But children know and sometimes reenact that very same trauma---as if to somehow finish the family business.
Vamik Volkan has written about deposit representations “which are representations of self or others deposited into the child's developing self -representation by traumatized parents.” And this is applicable to all kinds of trauma but specifically those pertaining to loss. “It is in the form of such representations that replacement children carry the legacy of a parental or generational distortion of mourning after traumatic history.”
In their paper Trans-generational Transmission and Deposited Representations: Psychological Burdens Visited by One Generation upon Another, Volkan and Greer describe how “a mother has an internalized formed image of her child who has died. She deposits this image into the developing self-representation of her next-born child, usually born after the first child’s death.” The replacement child then serves as the “reservoir” where the deceased child will be kept “alive”.
The replacement child is assigned (mostly unconsciously) specific psychological tasks in order to preserve what is deposited. Inevitably, this presents quite a dilemma for replacement children whose own identity has been high jacked---they can’t be who they are in their own right, they obviously can’t be the dead person, and yet somehow they’re expected to embody the representation of the deceased child from the parent’s perspective.
Trans-generational transmission on a societal level utilizes a similar mechanism, except that here the transmission occurs on a larger scale; the transmission of group trauma from generation to generation. Emeritus Professor of Psychiatry Vamik Volkan has extensively studied larger group dynamics, such as ethnic groups, and has found that, when a group suffers a catastrophe at the hands of an enemy, the self-images of individuals within the group are traumatized by this common event. The second generation then becomes the recipient of these traumatized images.
The second generation and those generations that follow are “assigned’ specific tasks as well; for example, mourning for the losses of their parents or ancestors, or taking revenge on the present group representing their parents’ enemies. Volkan emphasizes that “it is this trans-generational conveyance of long-lasting “tasks” that perpetuates the cycle of societal trauma… whatever its expression in a given generation, keeping alive the mental representation of the ancestors’ trauma remains the core task. Further, since the task is shared, each new generation’s burden reinforces the large-group identity and keeps its complexities “alive.”
So whether on the individual or societal level, the issue seems to be about breaking the cycle of trauma altogether, and thus freeing all participants from having to identify with a traumatic and/or unresolved past. On a societal level, this would certainly have a healing effect on a world full of “holocausts” --- wars, slavery, and genocide. On an individual level, breaking the cycle of depositing parental trauma of any kind would free children from the burden of carrying the “unfinished business” of their parents’ lives. From the perspective of the replacement child, breaking the cycle of unresolved parental grief and mourning and the consequences that result from it, would allow subsequent children to be who they are, to own their own identity, without the encumbering load of pathological and unrealistic parental expectations.
How Trauma Is Carried Across Generations
Holding the secret history of our ancestors.
2012 by Molly S. Castelloe, Ph.D.
http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-me-in-we/201205/how-trauma-is-carried-across-generations
What is overwhelming and unnamable is passed on to those we are closest to. Our loved ones carry what we cannot. And we do the same.
This is the subject of Lost in Transmission: Studies of Trauma Across Generations, edited by M. Gerard Fromm (2012). This collection of essays on traumatic transmission builds on the idea that “what human beings cannot contain of their experience—what has been traumatically overwhelming, unbearable, unthinkable—falls out of social discourse, but very often on to and into the next generation as an affective sensitivity or a chaotic urgency.”
The transmission of trauma may be particular to a given family suffering a loss, such as the death of an infant, or it can be a shared response to societal trauma.
Maurice De Witt, a sidewalk Santa on Fifth Avenue noticed a marked change in behavior the holiday season following 9/11 when parents would not “let the hands of their children go. The kids sense that. It’s like water seeping down, and the kids can feel it... There is an anxiety, but the kids can’t make the connections.”“This astute man was noticing a powerful double message in the parent’s action,” Fromm says. “Consciously and verbally, the message was 'Here’s Santa. Love him.' Unconsciously and physically, it was 'Here’s Santa. Fear him.' The unnamed trauma of 9/11 was communicated to the next generation by the squeeze of a hand.”
Psychic legacies are often passed on through unconscious cues or affective messages that flow between child and adult. Sometimes anxiety falls from one generation to the next through stories told.
Psychohistorian Peter Loewenberg recalls the oral tradition of his parents who lived through the hunger years in Germany during the First World War when the physical health and stature of a generation was stunted due to prolonged malnutrition. According to their stories, a once-a-year indulgence was an orange segmented and apportioned among the entire family. Loewenberg further identifies a cause chain between physical privations of the German people during WWI, which culminated in the Great Depression (1929), and the Nazi appeal to children of Central Europe. To what extent did “the passive experiences of childhood starvation” lead to a reversal and fantasied “undoing” through the hunger regimen and cruelty of the concentration camps? (Lowenberg, 61)
The Phoenix Kimono, painting by Arthur Hunter-Blair
http://www.arthurhunterblair.com/He cites another example of group transmission and its reversal. "The greatest Chinese historical trauma was undoubtedly the humiliation of the Japanese Imperial land” (1937-1945). When Chairman Mao Zedong proclaimed the People’s Republic in 1949 and said “The Chinese People have stood up!” he was repairing historical shame and hurt.Psychohistorian Howard Stein takes up the topic of collective trauma in America and imagines all the possible directions trauma can be transmitted in nations, ethnic groups, religions, and families. Trauma can be transferred in "vertical" direction, for example, in the brutal downsizing of a corporation. This is also the case in a leadership change at a local church after a pastor has been accused of sexual misconduct.
Stein articulates "horizontal" transmission as the circulation of injury among people in more equivalent powers relations. This is often the experience of health professionals working with victims of large scale disaster, such as the Oklahoma City bombing (1995), who suffer the empathy of witnessing second-hand. Vertical and lateral transmissions may happen concurrently, in relation to the same event.
Traumatic transmission ferries out unacknowledged grief along multiple vectors. Stein says mourning is "short-circuited," groups become "stuck" in time, and collective solidarity is created in the process.
Transmission is the giving of a task. The next generation must grapple with the trauma, find ways of representing it and spare transmitting the experience of hell back to one's parents. A main task of transmission is to resist disassociating from the family heritage and "bring its full, tragic story into social discourse." (Fromm, xxi)
Often one child within a family is nominated to both carry and communicate the grief of their predecessors. There was a man who entered a Holocaust Museum requesting that the institution keep the remains of the tattooed serial number taken from his arm. The chosen child is analogously charged with the mission of keeping the family heritage, being a “holding environment.”
How do we carry secret stories from before our lifetimes?
Transgenerational transmissions take on life in our in dreams, in acting out, in “life lessons” given in turns of phrase and taught us by our family. Discovering transmission means coming to know and tell a larger narrative, one from the preceding generation. It requires close listening to the stories of our parents and grandparents, with special attention to the social and historical milieu in which they lived -- especially its military, economic and political turmoil.
The emotional ties between child and ancestors are essential to the development of our values. These bonds often determine the answers to myriad questions such as: “Who am I?” "Who am I to my family?” “Who can ‘we’ trust” and who are our enemies?” “What ties me to my family?” And, most importantly, “of these ties, which do I reject and which to I keep?" (Barri Belnap, 127)
How does one discharge this mission? It is a precarious terrain of finding one's way through a web of familial loyalties to which one has been intensely faithful. The working through of transmission entails a painful, seemingly unbearable, process of separation. It can become an identity crisis, the breaking of an emotional chain. As Fromm puts it, “something life defining and deeply intimate is over.” The child speaks what their parent could not. He or she recognizes how their own experience has been authored, how one has been authorized, if unconsciously, to carry their parents’ injury into the future. In rising above the remnants of one's ancestors' trauma, one helps to heal future generations.
Holding the secret history of our ancestors.
2012 by Molly S. Castelloe, Ph.D.
http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-me-in-we/201205/how-trauma-is-carried-across-generations
What is overwhelming and unnamable is passed on to those we are closest to. Our loved ones carry what we cannot. And we do the same.
This is the subject of Lost in Transmission: Studies of Trauma Across Generations, edited by M. Gerard Fromm (2012). This collection of essays on traumatic transmission builds on the idea that “what human beings cannot contain of their experience—what has been traumatically overwhelming, unbearable, unthinkable—falls out of social discourse, but very often on to and into the next generation as an affective sensitivity or a chaotic urgency.”
The transmission of trauma may be particular to a given family suffering a loss, such as the death of an infant, or it can be a shared response to societal trauma.
Maurice De Witt, a sidewalk Santa on Fifth Avenue noticed a marked change in behavior the holiday season following 9/11 when parents would not “let the hands of their children go. The kids sense that. It’s like water seeping down, and the kids can feel it... There is an anxiety, but the kids can’t make the connections.”“This astute man was noticing a powerful double message in the parent’s action,” Fromm says. “Consciously and verbally, the message was 'Here’s Santa. Love him.' Unconsciously and physically, it was 'Here’s Santa. Fear him.' The unnamed trauma of 9/11 was communicated to the next generation by the squeeze of a hand.”
Psychic legacies are often passed on through unconscious cues or affective messages that flow between child and adult. Sometimes anxiety falls from one generation to the next through stories told.
Psychohistorian Peter Loewenberg recalls the oral tradition of his parents who lived through the hunger years in Germany during the First World War when the physical health and stature of a generation was stunted due to prolonged malnutrition. According to their stories, a once-a-year indulgence was an orange segmented and apportioned among the entire family. Loewenberg further identifies a cause chain between physical privations of the German people during WWI, which culminated in the Great Depression (1929), and the Nazi appeal to children of Central Europe. To what extent did “the passive experiences of childhood starvation” lead to a reversal and fantasied “undoing” through the hunger regimen and cruelty of the concentration camps? (Lowenberg, 61)
The Phoenix Kimono, painting by Arthur Hunter-Blair
http://www.arthurhunterblair.com/He cites another example of group transmission and its reversal. "The greatest Chinese historical trauma was undoubtedly the humiliation of the Japanese Imperial land” (1937-1945). When Chairman Mao Zedong proclaimed the People’s Republic in 1949 and said “The Chinese People have stood up!” he was repairing historical shame and hurt.Psychohistorian Howard Stein takes up the topic of collective trauma in America and imagines all the possible directions trauma can be transmitted in nations, ethnic groups, religions, and families. Trauma can be transferred in "vertical" direction, for example, in the brutal downsizing of a corporation. This is also the case in a leadership change at a local church after a pastor has been accused of sexual misconduct.
Stein articulates "horizontal" transmission as the circulation of injury among people in more equivalent powers relations. This is often the experience of health professionals working with victims of large scale disaster, such as the Oklahoma City bombing (1995), who suffer the empathy of witnessing second-hand. Vertical and lateral transmissions may happen concurrently, in relation to the same event.
Traumatic transmission ferries out unacknowledged grief along multiple vectors. Stein says mourning is "short-circuited," groups become "stuck" in time, and collective solidarity is created in the process.
Transmission is the giving of a task. The next generation must grapple with the trauma, find ways of representing it and spare transmitting the experience of hell back to one's parents. A main task of transmission is to resist disassociating from the family heritage and "bring its full, tragic story into social discourse." (Fromm, xxi)
Often one child within a family is nominated to both carry and communicate the grief of their predecessors. There was a man who entered a Holocaust Museum requesting that the institution keep the remains of the tattooed serial number taken from his arm. The chosen child is analogously charged with the mission of keeping the family heritage, being a “holding environment.”
How do we carry secret stories from before our lifetimes?
Transgenerational transmissions take on life in our in dreams, in acting out, in “life lessons” given in turns of phrase and taught us by our family. Discovering transmission means coming to know and tell a larger narrative, one from the preceding generation. It requires close listening to the stories of our parents and grandparents, with special attention to the social and historical milieu in which they lived -- especially its military, economic and political turmoil.
The emotional ties between child and ancestors are essential to the development of our values. These bonds often determine the answers to myriad questions such as: “Who am I?” "Who am I to my family?” “Who can ‘we’ trust” and who are our enemies?” “What ties me to my family?” And, most importantly, “of these ties, which do I reject and which to I keep?" (Barri Belnap, 127)
How does one discharge this mission? It is a precarious terrain of finding one's way through a web of familial loyalties to which one has been intensely faithful. The working through of transmission entails a painful, seemingly unbearable, process of separation. It can become an identity crisis, the breaking of an emotional chain. As Fromm puts it, “something life defining and deeply intimate is over.” The child speaks what their parent could not. He or she recognizes how their own experience has been authored, how one has been authorized, if unconsciously, to carry their parents’ injury into the future. In rising above the remnants of one's ancestors' trauma, one helps to heal future generations.
Scientists Discover Children’s Cells Living in Mothers’ Brains
The connection between mother and child is ever deeper than thought
December 4, 2012 |By Robert Martone
http://www.scientificamerican.com/article/scientists-discover-childrens-cells-living-in-mothers-brain/
The link between a mother and child is profound, and new research suggests a physical connection even deeper than anyone thought. The profound psychological and physical bonds shared by the mother and her child begin during gestation when the mother is everything for the developing fetus, supplying warmth and sustenance, while her heartbeat provides a soothing constant rhythm.
The physical connection between mother and fetus is provided by the placenta, an organ, built of cells from both the mother and fetus, which serves as a conduit for the exchange of nutrients, gasses, and wastes. Cells may migrate through the placenta between the mother and the fetus, taking up residence in many organs of the body including the lung, thyroid muscle, liver, heart, kidney and skin. These may have a broad range of impacts, from tissue repair and cancer prevention to sparking immune disorders.
It is remarkable that it is so common for cells from one individual to integrate into the tissues of another distinct person. We are accustomed to thinking of ourselves as singular autonomous individuals, and these foreign cells seem to belie that notion, and suggest that most people carry remnants of other individuals. As remarkable as this may be, stunning results from a new study show that cells from other individuals are also found in the brain. In this study, male cells were found in the brains of women and had been living there, in some cases, for several decades. What impact they may have had is now only a guess, but this study revealed that these cells were less common in the brains of women who had Alzheimer’s disease, suggesting they may be related to the health of the brain.
We all consider our bodies to be our own unique being, so the notion that we may harbor cells from other people in our bodies seems strange. Even stranger is the thought that, although we certainly consider our actions and decisions as originating in the activity of our own individual brains, cells from other individuals are living and functioning in that complex structure. However, the mixing of cells from genetically distinct individuals is not at all uncommon. This condition is called chimerism after the fire-breathing Chimera from Greek mythology, a creature that was part serpent part lion and part goat. Naturally occurring chimeras are far less ominous though, and include such creatures as the slime mold and corals.
Microchimerism is the persistent presence of a few genetically distinct cells in an organism. This was first noticed in humans many years ago when cells containing the male “Y” chromosome were found circulating in the blood of women after pregnancy. Since these cells are genetically male, they could not have been the women’s own, but most likely came from their babies during gestation.
In this new study, scientists observed that microchimeric cells are not only found circulating in the blood, they are also embedded in the brain. They examined the brains of deceased women for the presence of cells containing the male “Y” chromosome. They found such cells in more than 60 percent of the brains and in multiple brain regions. Since Alzheimer’s disease is more common in women who have had multiple pregnancies, they suspected that the number of fetal cells would be greater in women with AD compared to those who had no evidence for neurological disease. The results were precisely the opposite: there were fewer fetal-derived cells in women with Alzheimer’s. The reasons are unclear.
Microchimerism most commonly results from the exchange of cells across the placenta during pregnancy, however there is also evidence that cells may be transferred from mother to infant through nursing. In addition to exchange between mother and fetus, there may be exchange of cells between twins in utero, and there is also the possibility that cells from an older sibling residing in the mother may find their way back across the placenta to a younger sibling during the latter’s gestation. Women may have microchimeric cells both from their mother as well as from their own pregnancies, and there is even evidence for competition between cells from grandmother and infant within the mother.
What it is that fetal microchimeric cells do in the mother’s body is unclear, although there are some intriguing possibilities. For example, fetal microchimeric cells are similar to stem cells in that they are able to become a variety of different tissues and may aid in tissue repair. One research group investigating this possibility followed the activity of fetal microchimeric cells in a mother rat after the maternal heart was injured: they discovered that the fetal cells migrated to the maternal heart and differentiated into heart cells helping to repair the damage. In animal studies, microchimeric cells were found in maternal brains where they became nerve cells, suggesting they might be functionally integrated in the brain. It is possible that the same may true of such cells in the human brain.
These microchimeric cells may also influence the immune system. A fetal microchimeric cell from a pregnancy is recognized by the mother’s immune system partly as belonging to the mother, since the fetus is genetically half identical to the mother, but partly foreign, due to the father’s genetic contribution. This may “prime” the immune system to be alert for cells that are similar to the self, but with some genetic differences. Cancer cells which arise due to genetic mutations are just such cells, and there are studies which suggest that microchimeric cells may stimulate the immune system to stem the growth of tumors. Many more microchimeric cells are found in the blood of healthy women compared to those with breast cancer, for example, suggesting that microchimeric cells can somehow prevent tumor formation. In other circumstances, the immune system turns against the self, causing significant damage. Microchimerism is more common in patients suffering from Multiple Sclerosis than in their healthy siblings, suggesting chimeric cells may have a detrimental role in this disease, perhaps by setting off an autoimmune attack.
This is a burgeoning new field of inquiry with tremendous potential for novel findings as well as for practical applications. But it is also a reminder of our interconnectedness.
The connection between mother and child is ever deeper than thought
December 4, 2012 |By Robert Martone
http://www.scientificamerican.com/article/scientists-discover-childrens-cells-living-in-mothers-brain/
The link between a mother and child is profound, and new research suggests a physical connection even deeper than anyone thought. The profound psychological and physical bonds shared by the mother and her child begin during gestation when the mother is everything for the developing fetus, supplying warmth and sustenance, while her heartbeat provides a soothing constant rhythm.
The physical connection between mother and fetus is provided by the placenta, an organ, built of cells from both the mother and fetus, which serves as a conduit for the exchange of nutrients, gasses, and wastes. Cells may migrate through the placenta between the mother and the fetus, taking up residence in many organs of the body including the lung, thyroid muscle, liver, heart, kidney and skin. These may have a broad range of impacts, from tissue repair and cancer prevention to sparking immune disorders.
It is remarkable that it is so common for cells from one individual to integrate into the tissues of another distinct person. We are accustomed to thinking of ourselves as singular autonomous individuals, and these foreign cells seem to belie that notion, and suggest that most people carry remnants of other individuals. As remarkable as this may be, stunning results from a new study show that cells from other individuals are also found in the brain. In this study, male cells were found in the brains of women and had been living there, in some cases, for several decades. What impact they may have had is now only a guess, but this study revealed that these cells were less common in the brains of women who had Alzheimer’s disease, suggesting they may be related to the health of the brain.
We all consider our bodies to be our own unique being, so the notion that we may harbor cells from other people in our bodies seems strange. Even stranger is the thought that, although we certainly consider our actions and decisions as originating in the activity of our own individual brains, cells from other individuals are living and functioning in that complex structure. However, the mixing of cells from genetically distinct individuals is not at all uncommon. This condition is called chimerism after the fire-breathing Chimera from Greek mythology, a creature that was part serpent part lion and part goat. Naturally occurring chimeras are far less ominous though, and include such creatures as the slime mold and corals.
Microchimerism is the persistent presence of a few genetically distinct cells in an organism. This was first noticed in humans many years ago when cells containing the male “Y” chromosome were found circulating in the blood of women after pregnancy. Since these cells are genetically male, they could not have been the women’s own, but most likely came from their babies during gestation.
In this new study, scientists observed that microchimeric cells are not only found circulating in the blood, they are also embedded in the brain. They examined the brains of deceased women for the presence of cells containing the male “Y” chromosome. They found such cells in more than 60 percent of the brains and in multiple brain regions. Since Alzheimer’s disease is more common in women who have had multiple pregnancies, they suspected that the number of fetal cells would be greater in women with AD compared to those who had no evidence for neurological disease. The results were precisely the opposite: there were fewer fetal-derived cells in women with Alzheimer’s. The reasons are unclear.
Microchimerism most commonly results from the exchange of cells across the placenta during pregnancy, however there is also evidence that cells may be transferred from mother to infant through nursing. In addition to exchange between mother and fetus, there may be exchange of cells between twins in utero, and there is also the possibility that cells from an older sibling residing in the mother may find their way back across the placenta to a younger sibling during the latter’s gestation. Women may have microchimeric cells both from their mother as well as from their own pregnancies, and there is even evidence for competition between cells from grandmother and infant within the mother.
What it is that fetal microchimeric cells do in the mother’s body is unclear, although there are some intriguing possibilities. For example, fetal microchimeric cells are similar to stem cells in that they are able to become a variety of different tissues and may aid in tissue repair. One research group investigating this possibility followed the activity of fetal microchimeric cells in a mother rat after the maternal heart was injured: they discovered that the fetal cells migrated to the maternal heart and differentiated into heart cells helping to repair the damage. In animal studies, microchimeric cells were found in maternal brains where they became nerve cells, suggesting they might be functionally integrated in the brain. It is possible that the same may true of such cells in the human brain.
These microchimeric cells may also influence the immune system. A fetal microchimeric cell from a pregnancy is recognized by the mother’s immune system partly as belonging to the mother, since the fetus is genetically half identical to the mother, but partly foreign, due to the father’s genetic contribution. This may “prime” the immune system to be alert for cells that are similar to the self, but with some genetic differences. Cancer cells which arise due to genetic mutations are just such cells, and there are studies which suggest that microchimeric cells may stimulate the immune system to stem the growth of tumors. Many more microchimeric cells are found in the blood of healthy women compared to those with breast cancer, for example, suggesting that microchimeric cells can somehow prevent tumor formation. In other circumstances, the immune system turns against the self, causing significant damage. Microchimerism is more common in patients suffering from Multiple Sclerosis than in their healthy siblings, suggesting chimeric cells may have a detrimental role in this disease, perhaps by setting off an autoimmune attack.
This is a burgeoning new field of inquiry with tremendous potential for novel findings as well as for practical applications. But it is also a reminder of our interconnectedness.
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